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[-] Sunforged@lemmy.ml 140 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds more like a break from a crushing capitalist system.

[-] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 58 points 2 weeks ago

This was in the context of COVID:

Nanjikana said he has taken some positives away from the experience, such as a forced break from the chaos of a global pandemic.

“I had no idea what was going on while I was out there. I didn’t hear about Covid or anything else,” he said. “I look forward to going back home but I guess it was a nice break from everything.”

[-] SolarMyth@aussie.zone 28 points 2 weeks ago

The comment says a lot about what some people think therapy is for, too.

[-] SuluBeddu@feddit.it 13 points 2 weeks ago

Therapy can be pretty good at understanding you are not a walking problem, which is where many people are at

But it can't help with competition- and capitalism- induced suffering :(

[-] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 11 points 2 weeks ago

As a man who both goes to therapy and enjoys wandering in the back country for no purpose but to be in nature, they’re two useful actions that meet different needs. A therapist one trusts can meet the need of putting your struggles into words, even your most troubling ones that you are embarrassed to share with the people closest to you, or possibly involve those close to you but need help figuring out how to address with them.

Wandering through nature alone is perspective, and disconnection from the noise of humanity. Nature is vast, whether endless ocean to the horizon or never ending mountain ranges as far as you can see. The sound of waves or birds, insects, and a river are quiet compared to the hum of electricity, cars, machines, and people we’re so inundated with that we forget it’s unnatural until we’re away from it. Sense of smell might be our weakest sense but in nature you realize how unclean what we breathe daily really is.

Also, let’s not pretend that escaping civilization and embracing the isolation of nature is something only men enjoy.

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[-] IAmYouButYouDontKnowYet@reddthat.com 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Exactly. It's not reality people want to escape. It's honest reality people want to find and most people get lost on the way.

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[-] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 85 points 2 weeks ago

Therapy doesn't fix reality.

[-] MonkRome@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

I mean for some it can help them accept and process reality a little better.

[-] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 11 points 2 weeks ago

it is no sign of good health to be properly adapted to a profoundly sick society

[-] Zacryon@feddit.org 6 points 2 weeks ago

It helps to survive. You can still critizice the fucked system while suffering less from it. Often that's the best one can do.

[-] stickyprimer@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

It has nonzero value for many but that doesn’t elevate it to the status that we should shake our heads at people who don’t go. Like this tweet does.

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[-] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 42 points 2 weeks ago

Dude was out at sea for a month and tried to find a positive from it and peeps decided to be sexist about it

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[-] _stranger_@lemmy.world 42 points 2 weeks ago

Therapy won't make the world they have to go back to any better than it was before.

[-] Addendum@jlai.lu 11 points 2 weeks ago

Well, to be fair, neither will getting lost at sea

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[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 6 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, wtf does therapy even do? My brain is fucked because of the reality of my situation not because I have some dysfunctional mindset I need to work through. It's all external factors. Having to grind away at a job I hate just to scrape by while everything continues to get more expensive, billionaires burning the world, and our government falls to fascists is fucking hell. You'd have to be crazy not to have a fucked up mentality. Am I supposed to spend even more money I don't have just to talk about my problems?

Alternatively being able to completely disconnect from all this shit for a month where I have no choice but to simply focus on survival sounds pretty great.

Therapy is mostly about meditation, coping strategies, and self-improvement.

I think you might balk at the suggestion of developing coping strategies at all, but this:

being able to completely disconnect from all this shit for a month

Is a coping strategy. It doesn't really fix anything, but it does help you manage stress. I assume you can't take a month off, so therapy would say, "Okay, what's a second idea."

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[-] AceOnTrack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 2 weeks ago

Being lost at sea for 30 days is the therapy

[-] Hupf@feddit.org 15 points 2 weeks ago

Too bad he got rescued a day early then.

[-] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

That last day is where it really sticks/integrates long-term. Too bad.

[-] rafoix@lemmy.zip 38 points 2 weeks ago

Is therapy really that good? I know lots of folks that have been to therapy. They’re still shit.

[-] SeeMarkFly@lemmy.ml 26 points 2 weeks ago

I went to therapy and found a bunch of NEW things that I was (successfully) suppressing.

I PAID to have MORE problems. I can't afford ME.

[-] rafoix@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 weeks ago

I know that I have a lot of problems. A therapy bill will just be one more and it’s not going to undo the previous problems.

Understanding how and why I’m fucked up is not the same as not being fucked up.

[-] basxto@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 weeks ago

There are different kinds of therapy. Understanding what's wrong is one thing anf can help to get along with issues. But there is also therapy that focuses on changing your behavior etc

[-] reev@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago

But it's a step towards being able to (hopefully) process and better live with your issues. It never claimed to magically fix everything in your life, it's trying to get you to a point where you're equipped to fix/handle it yourself.

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[-] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 weeks ago

Therapy allowed me to let my guard down enough to see who I really am. That was pretty invaluable. Not easy or fun, but worth.

[-] Rooster326@programming.dev 15 points 2 weeks ago

Yes...but have you tried a 29 day, 696 hour vacation on a boat?

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[-] thethrilloftime69@feddit.online 12 points 2 weeks ago

I don't think it's just as simple as going to therapy but I've been in therapy for years and I'm the happiest I've ever been. I really got to work through stuff that I had been dealing with for years. I think it's hard to figure it out on your own, but I don't think a therapist is the only thing you need.

[-] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 9 points 2 weeks ago

Just do AI therapy!

It will tell you you're great, and you won't have to risk any emotional vulnerability with a real person!

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[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

If you have very thoughtful friends or family members that you talk to and can be honest with about.... Everything, then that fits the bill.

Also if it's just the "someone to listen to you" thing there are other free alternatives e.g online (with the extra anonymity, which is nice) or to a catholic/orthodox/high anglican priest, or to a volunteer counselling group (one big one exists in my city).

If you're not willing or feeling the need to give it a try, I would recommend reading about psychological concepts. Or just watch someone such as Daniel Mackler and you might learn to heal yourself through osmosis.

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[-] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Going to therapy?

... in this economy and healthcare system?

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[-] zergtoshi@lemmy.world 31 points 2 weeks ago

The sea doesn't bill by the hour.

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[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago

It's not a break from reality. It IS reality. It's just that human nests - any conquered space of nature, be it urban or rural - has a habit of becoming a panopticon torture complex that we don't very much enjoy being in

[-] Zacryon@feddit.org 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I have been and still am in therapy for a couple of years now. I would still like to be lost at sea to get such a break. (Provided I can easily survive that.)

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[-] JiveTurkey@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I think the point is that the reality of the world is currently shit and it sucks so it was nice to forget about that for a bit. It wasn't that he had some trauma he could ignore.

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[-] Tigeroovy@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

Tbh that does sound kind of nice right about now.

[-] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 weeks ago

Shit moves so fast you'd come back to a completely different world. Itd be like the planet of the apes

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[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

I'm in therapy and I'd still like a month away on a remotely uninhabited island.

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[-] 1984@lemmy.today 7 points 2 weeks ago

I love the sea. Its the most peaceful thing we have on this planet.

[-] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago
[-] 1984@lemmy.today 6 points 2 weeks ago

Even storms are beautiful to me. When not in a boat. :)

[-] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

i remember when i was like 8 years old and at a boat while there was a storm outside. it was the beautiful kind of scary, the moment where you start thinking "ok whatever happens, i can't change it, so i might as well vibe with the situation".

[-] unemployedclaquer@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 weeks ago
[-] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Anybody would rather be lost at sea for 29 days than be forced to participate in a rigged economy

[-] Hlodwig@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

The irony is that living stranded on an island is a return to reality, not an escape from it.

[-] Janx@piefed.social 5 points 2 weeks ago

Yes. Yes, I would...

[-] IAmYouButYouDontKnowYet@reddthat.com 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

yeah, its a shame we got lost. Luckily we had plenty of fuel.

Got em!

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