Sounds more like a break from a crushing capitalist system.
post
Therapy doesn't fix reality.
I mean for some it can help them accept and process reality a little better.
it is no sign of good health to be properly adapted to a profoundly sick society
It helps to survive. You can still critizice the fucked system while suffering less from it. Often that's the best one can do.
It has nonzero value for many but that doesn’t elevate it to the status that we should shake our heads at people who don’t go. Like this tweet does.
Dude was out at sea for a month and tried to find a positive from it and peeps decided to be sexist about it
Therapy won't make the world they have to go back to any better than it was before.
Well, to be fair, neither will getting lost at sea
Yeah, wtf does therapy even do? My brain is fucked because of the reality of my situation not because I have some dysfunctional mindset I need to work through. It's all external factors. Having to grind away at a job I hate just to scrape by while everything continues to get more expensive, billionaires burning the world, and our government falls to fascists is fucking hell. You'd have to be crazy not to have a fucked up mentality. Am I supposed to spend even more money I don't have just to talk about my problems?
Alternatively being able to completely disconnect from all this shit for a month where I have no choice but to simply focus on survival sounds pretty great.
Therapy is mostly about meditation, coping strategies, and self-improvement.
I think you might balk at the suggestion of developing coping strategies at all, but this:
being able to completely disconnect from all this shit for a month
Is a coping strategy. It doesn't really fix anything, but it does help you manage stress. I assume you can't take a month off, so therapy would say, "Okay, what's a second idea."
Being lost at sea for 30 days is the therapy
Is therapy really that good? I know lots of folks that have been to therapy. They’re still shit.
I went to therapy and found a bunch of NEW things that I was (successfully) suppressing.
I PAID to have MORE problems. I can't afford ME.
I know that I have a lot of problems. A therapy bill will just be one more and it’s not going to undo the previous problems.
Understanding how and why I’m fucked up is not the same as not being fucked up.
There are different kinds of therapy. Understanding what's wrong is one thing anf can help to get along with issues. But there is also therapy that focuses on changing your behavior etc
But it's a step towards being able to (hopefully) process and better live with your issues. It never claimed to magically fix everything in your life, it's trying to get you to a point where you're equipped to fix/handle it yourself.
Therapy allowed me to let my guard down enough to see who I really am. That was pretty invaluable. Not easy or fun, but worth.
I don't think it's just as simple as going to therapy but I've been in therapy for years and I'm the happiest I've ever been. I really got to work through stuff that I had been dealing with for years. I think it's hard to figure it out on your own, but I don't think a therapist is the only thing you need.
Just do AI therapy!
It will tell you you're great, and you won't have to risk any emotional vulnerability with a real person!
Going to therapy?
... in this economy and healthcare system?
The sea doesn't bill by the hour.
I have been and still am in therapy for a couple of years now. I would still like to be lost at sea to get such a break. (Provided I can easily survive that.)
Tbh that does sound kind of nice right about now.
Shit moves so fast you'd come back to a completely different world. Itd be like the planet of the apes
I'm in therapy and I'd still like a month away on a remotely uninhabited island.
I think the point is that the reality of the world is currently shit and it sucks so it was nice to forget about that for a bit. It wasn't that he had some trauma he could ignore.
I love the sea. Its the most peaceful thing we have on this planet.
Until the next storm.
Even storms are beautiful to me. When not in a boat. :)
Anybody would rather be lost at sea for 29 days than be forced to participate in a rigged economy
The irony is that living stranded on an island is a return to reality, not an escape from it.

top 50 comments