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[–] 78 points 7 months ago (7 children)

0-10 years.

You can die during the first 60 at any time, never making it.

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    i think about this when looking at the deduction % on my paystub i chose for retirement savings i may never use

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  • [–] 37 points 7 months ago* (3 children)

    "Free"

    Both my parents retired. Are they living it up? Are they checking things off their bucket lists? Nope. They're having emergency surgeries, planned surgeries, going to the doctor all the time, taking a regiment of pills or they die, and hanging around the house because they're old and their mobillity isn't great.

    A just reward after a lifetime of work.

    It's a scam, friends. You're going to work until you're dead or until it doesn't really matter anymore whether you're dead or not.

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  • [–] 14 points 7 months ago

    I used to get downvoted to shit for saying things like this, but enjoy and use your youth.

    No matter how you treat your body, you do not know what will happen to it. You may be athletic, rarely ill, an extremely healthy eater. You can still end up with a genetic condition you didn't know about, with a cancer you never fully recover from, losing all of your limbs, losing your bowels or bladder. Dying. All kinds of things.

    All of this can happen at any time in your life. Any time. You are not safe from bodily ailment just because you are young and apparently healthy.

    Even if nothing happens until you are old and decrepit like a healthy person ought to be, you will still have lost the best years of your life.

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  • [–] 32 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    This framework fails to consider all the time between those main activities, which we spend shitposting.

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    [–] 31 points 7 months ago

    How selfish of you to deny your fortune to be able to contribute to the wealth of the chosen few!

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    [–] 20 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    bUt iF yOu SeE yOuR wOrKpLaCe lIkE fAmIlY tHeN yOu nEvEr wOrK a DaY iN yOuR lIfE!

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    [–] 18 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    40 years? Try 50+

    I started working at 14-15, and I'll be happy if I can retire at 65

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  • [–] 15 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Suicide until you're reincarnated in billionaire family.

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  • [–] 15 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    You should be having fun during the 20 years that you're studying. And you should be having fun during the 40 years that you're working.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    It's actually possible to get meaning from what you do as well. May not pay the best in the world, but it's out there. I was in non-profit administration for many years, and I work for a law school now that helps poor folks, many BIPOC, get degrees so they can better themselves and their communities. Social justice people. I've also worked for a private conservative-owned company that only enriched some fuckwads, and I'll not be doing that again.

    Also I run a nonprofit that I founded on the side, and we're hoping to hire our first staff person this year, I get a lot of meaning from that.

    Basically if you work to change the world for the better instead of just slumping through your day, you feel good about your life, even though it's hard work.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago*

    Yes, there's that, too.

    But even if you don't like your job and don't find much meaning out of it, it's still worth trying to find contentment and happiness in other parts of your life.

    I've had jobs I hated with coworkers I loved. I've had jobs I've liked in places I hated. I've had jobs I mostly hated that I actually appreciate having taught me important skills I still use today (for example, a 3-year stint in restaurants in my 20's was miserable in a lot of ways, but it helped me stretch a tight grocery budget and fed me plenty of staff meals, and 20+ years later I'm still a great cook).

    Jobs don't define us. For many people, they're just a small part of us. And we should go on to build fulfilling lives for ourselves across many domains, not just at work.

    I had fun in college. My major didn't define my actual day to day, or my memories of that time. I had fun in high school. I had fun in elementary school too. I don't remember everything or even everyone, but I know I had a blast at those stages in my life, and most of the fun was had outside of school.

    Work is the same way.

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    [–] 13 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    The meaning of life is listening to groovy basslines on the way to and from work. And hugging your loved ones.

    Don't let anything distract you from that.

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Free? That's when your kids send your grandkids for you to take care of. Ungrateful bastards...

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    [–] 12 points 7 months ago

    Don't mistake this as me saying this work-til-you-die shit is okay, cause it's not. But freedom is as much a mindset as it is a material circumstance. There are people who have everything but freedom and there are people who have nothing but freedom.

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    You think you are going to retire for 5-10 years? Cute.

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago

    40 Hopefully!

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago (1 child)
    • depression for 70 years
    • die
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    [–] 6 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    The philosopher Emil Cioran had an interesting take on this. If I read him right we can stop looking for the meaning of life. It won't make us happy to look, but it also won't make us happy to stop. Nothing will make us happy.

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    [–] 6 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    300 years ago:

    Probably die

    Work

    Die

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    [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Anf then you move to western or northern europe. Wait you guys got childhoods? Wait you guys get actual 6-8 hours of work a day instead of having 4 hours of unpaid overtime after it? Wait you guys get to retire at an age and health condition where you just travel poor african and asian countries for another 15 years being racist in some very strange colonialist manner?(this last one being a critique)

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    It's not that bad. You're generally not aware of what you're doing for the first 10 years. Then study for the next 10. Then, if you work to live and not live to work, you might get something out of life. Anything post work, I kinda see as a bonus, not a goal. Predisposed medical conditions may mean you aren't seeing those years anyway. Actually... it may be that bad lol.
    Just don't take it that seriously. Live till you die.

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    [–] 4 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I’m a 43 year old engineer in an auto plant and I really enjoy my work.

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    [–] 4 points 7 months ago (13 children)

    The only thing missing from this is the quest for a cruelty free pee, that seems to take up most of our lives these days.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago

    The Beatles had the meaning of life in a song back in the day- Life Goes On

    That's it, it just goes on

    If you're lucky you have a kid

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    The meaning is to live life and enjoy as much as you can along the way.

    I'm going to leave my kids more than my parents will leave me, and more than their parents left them, and hopefully they'll be shaped with better ideals because of me.

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