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[–] [S] 272 points 2 years ago* (26 children)

One teacher allowed girls bathroom breaks without a question but not guys and we thought it was bc girls can't hold pee in since they don't have dicks.

If you can't tell sex ed doesnt exist in this part of the world

Hell that's not even sex ed but anatomy ig

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    Period flow can happen without warning, and even if there is a warning, it's not usually something that girls are comfortable enough with to want to announce the reason in front of a classroom.

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    [–] 240 points 2 years ago (12 children)

    I learned in college (from my nurse girlfriend) that if a girl is taking antibiotics that it invalidates her birth control pills for the month and you need to use condoms until after her period.

    Spread the word, brothers.

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  • [–] 98 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

    That's not really true.

    Sure it's true for rifampicin and rifabutin (and maybe one more similar one). But those are used to treat TB.

    All the standard ones you'd take are fine for birth control.

    Edit: Thanks to some people who are more knowledgeable than me on the topic, there are some others, or secondary effects you should consider.

    Moral of the story: if in doubt ALWAYS use more contraception. Best to be safe out there.

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    [–] 195 points 2 years ago (28 children)

    I am a medical interpreter and until like three months ago I didn't know that women had clear fluid secretions on the regular, as in as a normal part of their life monthly cycle. No one, not any gf nor my actual gf or any friend had told me that. I hadn't heard about it anywhere, either on the news, on small talk, on jokes, on serious conversations, on sex ed, nowhere. I was in wonder not because of the fact, but because of how little info about it there is until I got the info in my job, and even there i hadn't heard about it before nor after. It's so weird for something so common to be this quiet.

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  • [–] 178 points 2 years ago (17 children)

    You know what's extra fun about this?

    Those secretions bleach underwear. That's right, my cute black panties are all inevitably doomed to have a white spot in the crotch over time!

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  • [–] 80 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    I kept reading and hearing this and since it doesn't happen to me I thought something was wrong with me. So I'd like to add that according to my gyn it's also perfectly normal to not have this happen!

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  • [–] 85 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    I'd almost say the same thing about the fact that ballsacks "breathe" constantly. It's easily confirmed by just looking at them when idle, but nobody talks about it and I never read anything about it until I just... Looked at my own balls for a few seconds and realized they noticeably expand and contract at a discernable speed.

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    [–] 178 points 2 years ago* (12 children)

    That the vagina is way lower than a lot of people depict it. A lot of my anatomy exposure when I was younger was hentai, and it turns out hentai artists don’t really know where the vagina is either. The ones that put the vagina as the little sister of the belly button on the woman desperately need to look up their Year 9 health book.

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  • [–] 40 points 2 years ago

    So true. I had some real surprises when I first got to explore the anatomy of an actual girl, despite having had reasonably good sex ed in school. Not that I got my information from hentai though, that just wasn't a thing at the time.

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    [–] [S] 147 points 2 years ago (12 children)

    Believed this until I was like 16 and so did everyone else in our school.

    A girl did anal and got pregnant and since it was anal that got her pregnant she was gonna poop out the baby. Funny thing is I was part of the group conversation that started this rumor and STILL we all believed it.

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  • [–] 111 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    since it was anal that got her pregnant

    Umm...you might still be missing some sex ed info.

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    [–] 127 points 2 years ago* (33 children)

    If, after puberty, you can't easily retract your foreskin over the head of your dick (it also shouldn't hurt), you have a very unhygienic problem called phimosis.

    It can be self cured with regular stretching but sometimes you will need a doctor to prescribe a steroid cream to assist with this, the worst cases can require circumcision.

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  • [–] 76 points 2 years ago (8 children)

    I had this problem until I was 19. I couldn't retract the skin because it was so painful. I had a very short frenulum so I couldn't even masturbate. I went to a doctor, he said I should circumcise. DO NOT circumcise your skin. There's a much simpler operation where you just cut and remove the frenulum. I learned this from Google, the operation lasted 15 minutes and my recovery was extremely fast

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  • [–] 47 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    Yes, someone I knew had this. He actually bled because of his foreskin ripping when he lost his virginity when he was 30 or something.

    We were on holiday with a group of friends at the time, we shared cabins in groups of 6. One morning we came downstairs and there were sheets hung up in the living room. We asked what happened, he said he had a nosebleed and bled on the sheets. Later we found out from the girl he was with they wanted to have sex, he was a virgin and when they tried his foreskin tore and bled all over everything. Of course by the end of the week everybody in our extended circle knew.

    They wound up married, even though they were 10 years apart in age (she was 20 at the time, as were most of our group, he was the older brother of someone in our group). Now he's a fat lazy fuck without a job and the wife has to take care of their two kids, the house and has a job. They still married though, even if the wife's complaining about him all the time. So all's well that ends well I guess.

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    [–] 107 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    I had to explain to a girl that no, we should not have sex while you have a UTI. She was in her mid 30's.

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    [–] 103 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    The hymen is not normally ripping at the "first time", but these myths come from brutal men that have no compassion and dont know how to make both people horny.

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  • [–] 75 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    Breaking a hymen when you first have sex is indeed a myth, but so is the idea that sufficient arousal will prevent tearing every hymen.

    Hymens come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and elasticities. They can tear from many things but most people with hymens are quite likely to experience minor tearing or bleeding the first time they have sex. That's especially true if the hymen is particularly large or thick and if you haven't torn it before the first time you had sex.

    That's the last myth, even if breaking a hymen was a real thing required for sex, it doesn't say anything about virginity because many girls tear it in childhood and puberty from a variety of activities as innocuous as swimming.

    https://flo.health/menstrual-cycle/health/period/what-is-hymen-and-how-it-changes

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  • [–] 102 points 2 years ago (8 children)

    at 17yo I thought my circumcision scar was a birthmark and I didn't know you had to have sex at least once per pregnancy

    parents, please tell your kids where babies come from and what all their parts are supposed to do, and don't circumcise them either

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    [–] 97 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    If you're on hormonal birth control, you don't need to have monthly bleeding cycles. The sugar pill part of most hormonal birth control pills, was added so as to not scare people when their bleeding disappeared.

    https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/birth-control/in-depth/womens-health/art-20044044

    I learned this so late....

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  • [–] 70 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    The primary purpose of the sugar pill is to maintain the habit of taking a pill daily.

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  • [–] 48 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    The Team that Invented the Birth Control Pill - The Atlantic

    https://archive.ph/enn5j

    He told Rock to have his patients stop taking the pills for five days each month. Their hormone levels would return to normal, their symptoms would ease, and they would have their periods. Rock liked the idea. It would make the pill seem more natural, like a scientific version of the rhythm method.

    So yes, your right, the sugar pill was added to help people count the 5 days of no hormones correctly.

    But the only reason for the 5 day hormone gap in the initial recommendations was to make users feel more natural, and not think they were pregnant.

    Though the history is fascinating, always worth a read!

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    [–] 97 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    Until about halfway into my teens, no one told me that periods were painful, or involved behavior altering hormone releases. I thought my sisters were becoming moody & rude for no reason. I was generally aware of the concept of periods, but not of the broader effects. I feel I might have been much more sympathetic had I known.

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    [–] 89 points 2 years ago (11 children)

    I did not understand orgasms or realize I wasn't having them with my partners until I finally did have one. πŸ˜‚ I genuinely didn't understand that it could feel that good until it did.

    Another win for abstinence-based sex ed in rural America!

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    [–] 80 points 2 years ago (8 children)

    Mine was "Not all women like being touched the same way". As in, some women can't reach orgasm from penetration alone, but some do. Some want direct pressure on their clitoris, some do not. And this all makes sense, not everyone likes the same things.

    And that is, for me at least, where the fun is. I like to figure things out. I like to see how stuff works. And women are pretty awesome. What would be a better evening than figuring out exactly how to pleasure someone, through communication and experimentation? I'm still finding ways to push my wife's buttons 14 years later.

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    [–] 62 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    well my sex ed consisted of a man who would later that year get fired for hitting a student telling us that premarital sex will result in pregnancy and then having us perform a play I can only describe as racially charged about the subject

    after being fired he went on to become a far right politician

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    [–] 58 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    I'm a woman and didn't know we all grew breasts until I asked about my own.

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    [–] 49 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Let me just say here how much I appreciate the sex ed I got in school.

    I'm talking life-size cross-section models of a human torso that you could take individual organs out of for closer inspection.

    One thing we still didn't learn much about is how wildly different periods can be for different people, I very much appreciated a friend explaining this to me.

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    [–] 47 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I didn’t understand the concept of a climax until it happened. The first time crankin it I remember mid way through thinking β€œI don’t get it, so if I keep doing this it just keeps feeling better and better infinitely?” When it happened it was one of the most stunning moments of my life.

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    [–] 45 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    i thought my first boner was a medical emergency

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    [–] 36 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I learned a lot about the human reproductive system in both male and females while I lived in Maryland. I moved to Texas and I learned that women are sinners and so they suffer every month and men have OP rib bones.

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