I’m excited to see a bunch of 16 year old with no relationship experience tell everyone the obvious choice is to break up
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Now I can eat popcorn while watching some couple's life burn to the ground around them, but without the icky feeling (from supporting Spez's empire, that is).
may this be better than the one on reddit, where half the posts are "you gotta break up now"!
I think there might be a selection bias effect with the topic. Most people in happy relationships aren't going online to seek how to help others have happy relationships. Instead, it's people with poor relationships or a history of poor relationships googling the term and joining the group and giving their assessment and advice.
Also "they missed a call? They're definitely cheating!" Then "you fucked up because you didn't trust your partner, doesn't matter if your friend sent you elaborately forged evidence!"
Great! Though I do admit on the previous relationship_advice sub the only thing I did was to try and guess if something was a legit question for advice or just a creative / drama writing exercise ...
All posts must be a request for advice.
Hope this rule gets applied to posts that pretend to be looking for advice but are really just seeking validation. People complain about the advice always being to break up, but IMO this is the bigger issue which keeps me away from all of the advice subreddits.
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Thanks a lot! It's simple but I think it represents the community well. I have zero drawing or editing skills, so each new icon I make means wasting some time trying to learn how to use GIMP correctly hahaha. But I think the icons are important, they create a consistent visual identity to Lemmy.
Okay silly question incoming: how do I subscribe (or whatever the term is 😅)
Not silly at all! It's a new platform, everybody is learning. I see you're from the Lemmy.blahaj.zone instance, so the easiest way to join our community would be acessing Lemmy from your instance like you already did, then navigate to this reply I just wrote to you and click here to get to the community and then click Subscribe on the sidebar. If you are using the Android app Jerboa please note there's currently a bug that prevents this link from working, so I recommend using a browser on your phone or PC just for joining. After that, you can use the community as normal!
As you're on the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance, go to https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world and hit the Subscribe button.
The format is generally yourinstance/c/communityname@communityinstance
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