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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

been a while since i posted last time ~

i had to update thad name at som point... couldn stand peeps callin me "smarty" .... i dun wana be a peep who goes "oh - im soooo smart!!! look at me ~ im sooooo special - yea thads right!!! look at me!!!!" yea no... dun like those peeps.. n dun wana be one of em-

anyway - maria it is now ig...

i wish u a lovely day ~ <3

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reason for name changei too miss the smorty name kinda-

the reason i switched is cuz the old one... well, its very close to the deadname.. aaaaand yea- naw.... i dun like that dead name...

so this is a big boi distinction... yesyes

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[-] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Cute name! Don't think I'll have any trouble recognizing you whatever the name says, your style is very distinctive and funny. And I won't call you smarty for picking a good name, hehe... You're a li'l dummy, maria!!

Edit: Do you care about the capital letter on your name? You don't use them at all, but now I'm not sure if it's part of the name or if I'm free to capitalize however I like.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

oh - hehehee yea------

i jus dun use any capitals anywhere in the post- so feel free to write how u feel it looks best ~ <3

also - dummy!?!!!!? aaaaaaaaa >o< ~(im~ ~not~ ~actulli~ ~upset~ ~btw~ ~<3~ ~)~

the main reason i switched is cuz of the peeps callin me ~smarty~, and som evn said that they assumed the name was meant to be a spin on smarty... which.. yea no - i dun like the idea of peeps thinkin im tryin to imply im soooo smart with my name... yea naw - thats like - pretentious n uncomf. thads like naming urself einstein. dun like that idea....

so now its fine when peeps say it - cuz i kno that peeps jus say it cuz they mean it, not cuz they look at the name n go "heheheheehehheehehheeee, so funi, imma put smarty cuz hihieheihi"

yea-- thads what im feelin ~ ~ ~

[-] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Maria hey maria hu maria ho maria ha ha

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

um.... yis?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

I though the username was something like "It's Morty" but in a cute way.

Or are you saying that you dislike people mistyping your username as smarty? Makes sense that it makes you feel as pretentious.

Have fun Maria!

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

hehi its morty would be a rlli fun reason to chose that name - but naw- i jus came up with it som years ago n kept it... for a lil too long >//v//<

i jus dun like it when peeps think i chose the name cuz of coorlation with "smarty".... i dun wana be thad kindsa .... pretentious ew peep who named themselves einstein. naw.... thats uncomf n uncool.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

I feel bad because I pointed out that you were a smarty! I swear it was because of your qwenposts, not your username! XD

Very pretty name!

[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 day ago

let me know if you get a new account! I'll need to tag it like this one:

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

oh noooooo! it still shows the old name?... grrr... thads sad...

anyway.... the flair -- iduno - i hav only heard those.... words in an adult context...(at least the - the second ones....)

[-] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

that's an old screenshot, but it still shows your username for me bc of my client

i guess i can see how you see it as sexual, but i really don't mean it that way. it's more meant to be gender affirming

[-] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago
[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Tis unfortunate that people conflated your former name with 'smarty', if anything smorty was a good subversion of that. You are a cool and special peep, in the best way.

Anyways, excited for all the future Maria memes! :3

[-] [email protected] 45 points 1 day ago

Awww I always thought your username was adorable. But no matter what you end up using maria it will be so hecking cute because you are so hecking cute 💖

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Hi Maria!
Like others said, I’ll miss Smorty. But it doesn’t matter in the end, because you’re still the same wonderful person and you should have the name that you want :)
But I never associated your old name with “smarty” though. Sorry to hear that you had to deal with that.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago

Hello Maria!

[-] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago

I really dig that digital-ish, aliased watercolor aesthetic btw. Very Comf.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

Hi Maria! Its a nice name and it suits you well.

tho i do miss smorty

[-] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago

Maria brings life to my Lemmy feed and my day!

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

I agree 💯

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Hi Maria! ❤️

[-] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago

I will update my comments to reflect this change! Thanks for the update Maria. Hope you're doing well today! <3

[-] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

Hi Maria! And congratulations!

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