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[–] 212 points 1 year ago (10 children)

A lot of Americans don’t have a private area outside of their car

I can’t tell you how many of my telehealth therapy clients meet me from their car because they don’t have a truly private space in their own home. I actually can tell you, it’s like 40-50% depending on when you ask me

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  • [–] 75 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I've had telehealth appointments in the car because I'm using a break from work to make the appointment. It's bizarre that our society expects us to work 9-5, but also expects us to somehow get every necessary appointment done within that same time frame. I'm not given enough time off to run home and come back, so an appointment in the car it is.

    But your point stands true. My boyfriend has a telehealth call every weekend. Our tiny apartment doesn't offer much privacy, so he gets the living room (where the computer is) while I either stay in the bedroom, or go out somewhere for an hour to give him space.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    I'd think the bathroom would be anotherboption.

    Yiu can take the ham radio license exam over Zoom now, but you need to be in a closed room to imply you're not being coached. The evaluators said I was far from the first to do it in the loo.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    If you can't ask family for a private space for an hour long therapy session, chances are you won't feel safe/private in the bathroom either. Maybe you don't want them to know you're in therapy. Much less sus it you're just out of the house for an hour.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago

    To add to this, life can be noisy. If you have multiple people working from home and pets, it’s hard to get a quiet time when it’s convenient for you. You can’t ask me to be quiet, if I have meetings scheduled all day so you can’t ask film a food review video.

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  • Ugh, this is so true. My mom started going to therapy in 2020 (after her own mom died of Covid), and she's been keeping it a secret from my dad all this time. When I lived with them, my mom would schedule telehealth calls for when my dad was out of the house and asked me to let her know if he was coming home early.

    Honestly, my dad's a smart guy and I don't doubt he'd be understanding of therapy if she talked to him about it - I never got any "anti-therapy" messages from him. But my mom's anxiety is deep-set from her childhood, and although I would handle the situation differently with my own partners, I'm at least glad she's talking to a professional.

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    [–] 118 points 1 year ago (23 children)

    Don't wanna excuse car-centric development, but i'd guess that they want the food to be fresh and they don't wanna film inside the restaurant, and car provide them some soundproofing from outside.

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    [–] 88 points 1 year ago (12 children)

    It's the lack of third places in the US (and increasingly everywhere else). The only place they can unconditionally exist at, outside of their house, is their car.

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    [–] 82 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Actual reason: acoustics for media presentation. A car is a vocal booth.

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  • [–] 56 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Yeah, reviewing in the restaurant would be rude and reviewing at home would get cold.

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  • [–] 29 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    My thoughts exactly. The privacy aspect of not capturing other people in the video, not being bothered by other people, not taking up a table for too long, etc.

    Not going to lie, I'm definitely not a fan of car-dependent infrastructure, but in this world we currently have, the car does provide a convenient enclosure for this purpose

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  • [–] 68 points 1 year ago (23 children)

    Eh. Would you rather they sit in the restaurant and annoy everyone with their filming and talking?

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    [–] 40 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    i was driven by an uber driver yesterday who seriously thought cycling should be illegal.

    his rationale was that bicycles are "unregistered vehicles and so if they cause accident who is going to pay?!" when i pointed out that probably they should pay just as anyone else he just dismissed it like this: "that is not possible. if a cyclist crashes into me and kills me who is gonna pay me?!" i was speechless after that.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I guess walking should be outlawed too, after all someone could be walking on a sidewalk and accidentally bump into you and knock you into the street. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago
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    I really don't understand who even watches videos like this. I don't trust anyone to have a good sense of taste except myself and my wife. Unless someone is a chef I trust, I don't want them telling me how the food "tastes" since most people simply can't.

    If you want to try food, then try it. If you can't afford it, then don't think about it. You can probably make something like it yourself cheaper and better if you put in the effort.

    Also, fuck large chain restaurants, support local food and establishments that treat workers well.

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    [–] 30 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    They practically live in the damn things.

    Have you seen rent prices

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    [–] 29 points 1 year ago (13 children)

    TBF you want the food to be fresh and you also want an isolated place to review it alone.

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    [–] 28 points 1 year ago

    Because the US is a dystopian nightmare

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    You know, I love what you guys are trying to do here. I love seeing the pictures you guys post when progress is made and I agree with you that the world would be better with more walkable places that are beautiful and green.

    This post though? It is pointless and it makes you all look batshit insane.

    “Oh no, someone used a drive thru. Stupid car brain! Use ur legs moron!”

    Meanwhile I’m sitting here 45 miles from the nearest Walmart haha. Out here in rural hell I’d have to camp out overnight to finish my journey to get food.

    I know, I know. I should take my talentless, unskilled ass to a city and leave everyone I know and love behind so I can walk from my cardboard box to McDonald’s.

    Maybe I’m just in a bad mood. I usually like the posts here. This one just rubs me the wrong way.

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    [–] 14 points 1 year ago

    Daymon Patterson aka Dayum Drops became YouTube famous and made/makes a good living doing food reviews from his car since 2010.

    People who can't be original try to replicate success, I guess.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    Well that and isn't a significant % of US citizens homeless these days?

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    Because there are kids and spouses and often parents and other family at home, can't shoot a video with all that noise.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    Because it's dangerous to be outside without being inside.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago*

    Man, I cannot stand eating even chips in a car, yet this guy ate a whole lobster meal with butter dressing in it. Just seeing the thumbnail sends me shivers.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Try living here without one lol it's quite difficult and we try for years to get to a point where we can be free of the car

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    By why not drive home and film it on a table?

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  • [–] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Food isnt as hot and fresh. Also while you drive 10 20 minutes to get home your food can have steam build up ruining the fresh food texture.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    Because no one want to listen to them yap on and on in the restaurant. And it could be a long drive back to wherever you live. Or the people at their home don't want to listen to them either.

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  • I was wondering a good 30 seconds who the fuck Carbrian was

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