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It is what it is, so I look back and laugh, but I realize this behavior was so toxic (self.mentalhealth)
submitted 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) by relation_anon4238 to c/[email protected]
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One girl called me garbage and abused me for years and the other was so weird, like she’d walk up to me and go “RELAAAAATIONNN” (placeholder for name) as if she was gonna attack me. She also texted like that and try and find my information on her alt accounts.

They were best friends. Furthermore, nothing was ever their fault and everything was always mine. They treated me like their dog or an animal. They made fun of my mental conditions too and screamed at me when they knew I hated yelling and one of them would make threats to physically hurt me to scare me into doing what they want. “If you did it right, I wouldn’t hurt you, but I will if you do it wrong again!”

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago

Sadistic

[-] relation_anon4238 2 points 1 hour ago

Agreed

[-] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

ok these people sound literally insane 😭 😭

I'm sorry this happened, I hope you don't still talk to them

[-] relation_anon4238 3 points 1 hour ago

Thanks so much, I do not.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

yayyy!

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

That's so toxic, I'm glad you "escaped"

this post was submitted on 21 Jun 2025
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