What do I do? (self.relationship_advice)
 

Cross-posted from "What do I do?" by @relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club in !lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone


So my girlfriend "Lily" hasn't texted me in over a week. I can tell she is alright and receiving my messages, as it says she has read them, but she won't respond, even if I send something romantic like "I love you" or just say something like "let me know when you can hang out".

Lily is usually busy and will text me "Sorry can't talk right now" and that will be the end of our conversation. My friends, however, said that this is suspicious and means she doesn't WANT to talk because if she couldn't talk right NOW she would at least answer later instead of just reading it. ' I have no idea, it's been a week and I haven't heard from her.

What do I do? (self.lesbians)
 

So my girlfriend "Lily" hasn't texted me in over a week. I can tell she is alright and receiving my messages, as it says she has read them, but she won't respond, even if I send something romantic like "I love you" or just say something like "let me know when you can hang out".

Lily is usually busy and will text me "Sorry can't talk right now" and that will be the end of our conversation. My friends, however, said that this is suspicious and means she doesn't WANT to talk because if she couldn't talk right NOW she would at least answer later instead of just reading it. ' I have no idea, it's been a week and I haven't heard from her.

 

CW: Possible transphobia?? i feel like yes but I may be overreacting

I've posted about my ex-friend, Maxine. She went from a slightly rude, loud girl I dated who quoted movies and memes to a straight Christian girl who wants a Christian husband. At one point, she questioned being trans.

She kept talking about how kids shouldn't even socially transition and how people shouldn't take hormones. She also kept talking about how being gay for her was a phase, that she regretted being gay/trans, and how she repented for it.

 

So, I'll just get straight to the point. I found the idea of being in a relationship with a man/doing stuff with him possibly exciting if I met the right one, but I could never see myself in a long-term relationship with him. I do not feel very much attraction to men either, though some made my heart flutter if I'm close with them.

Now, I have a girlfriend, so I speak in the past tense and only she makes my heart flutter, but would I be bi?? A lot of people seem to be questioning, so I thought "Why not I post about this, too?" Or am I a lesbian? I am certainly not straight.

Did my ex love me? (self.relationship_advice)
 

Okay, so first off, I wanna say that I'm in a lovely relationship with "Jess" and have been for a few days. Before I dated my friend and now girlfriend Jess, though, was my ex that I posted about around 2 weeks ago: Evangelina.

Evangelina and I were going great, until she told me she needed me for something. I asked what she needed me for, and she said she was horny.

I didn't know what to do, so I sent photos of my face and said "Here you go," but she asked for "different photos".

When I refused to give them to her because we'd only been dating for a few days and I'd been sexually harassed before, she said "It's fine, I get it." But then she blocked me??

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