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What do I do? (self.relationship_advice)

Cross-posted from "What do I do?" by @relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club in !lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone


So my girlfriend "Lily" hasn't texted me in over a week. I can tell she is alright and receiving my messages, as it says she has read them, but she won't respond, even if I send something romantic like "I love you" or just say something like "let me know when you can hang out".

Lily is usually busy and will text me "Sorry can't talk right now" and that will be the end of our conversation. My friends, however, said that this is suspicious and means she doesn't WANT to talk because if she couldn't talk right NOW she would at least answer later instead of just reading it. ' I have no idea, it's been a week and I haven't heard from her.

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What do I do? (self.lesbians)

So my girlfriend "Lily" hasn't texted me in over a week. I can tell she is alright and receiving my messages, as it says she has read them, but she won't respond, even if I send something romantic like "I love you" or just say something like "let me know when you can hang out".

Lily is usually busy and will text me "Sorry can't talk right now" and that will be the end of our conversation. My friends, however, said that this is suspicious and means she doesn't WANT to talk because if she couldn't talk right NOW she would at least answer later instead of just reading it. ' I have no idea, it's been a week and I haven't heard from her.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by relation_anon4238 to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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So, I just broke up with my ex as well, as she was using me. She found out I was now dating one of my good friends, and she's calling me a slut for moving on.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by relation_anon4238 to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

So, I had a girlfriend but we decided to break up because I found out she was using me so I could buy her sodas... so my friend and I ended up bonding and connecting really well so I just went for it. We have a strong bond. :)

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by relation_anon4238 to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

CW: Possible transphobia?? i feel like yes but I may be overreacting

I've posted about my ex-friend, Maxine. She went from a slightly rude, loud girl I dated who quoted movies and memes to a straight Christian girl who wants a Christian husband. At one point, she questioned being trans.

She kept talking about how kids shouldn't even socially transition and how people shouldn't take hormones. She also kept talking about how being gay for her was a phase, that she regretted being gay/trans, and how she repented for it.

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YEAH!!!!

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She is a monster slayer, loyal to a fault, and will do ANYTHING for her girlfriend Madison. She would probably kill for Madison and is not quite mentally well, sadly.

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So, I'll just get straight to the point. I found the idea of being in a relationship with a man/doing stuff with him possibly exciting if I met the right one, but I could never see myself in a long-term relationship with him. I do not feel very much attraction to men either, though some made my heart flutter if I'm close with them.

Now, I have a girlfriend, so I speak in the past tense and only she makes my heart flutter, but would I be bi?? A lot of people seem to be questioning, so I thought "Why not I post about this, too?" Or am I a lesbian? I am certainly not straight.

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Even if the girl who bullied me in high school blamed me, got her friends to threaten me, etc. she still seemed to enjoy my company and I was always the first person she turned to when bad things happened.

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by relation_anon4238 to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

One of my abusers has aggressive parents who are very strict and wake them up at 4 a.m. every day, and neither of them have very many friends nor boyfriends which they desperately want and are lonely. Should I feel bad despite how they treated me?

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Did my ex love me? (self.relationship_advice)

Okay, so first off, I wanna say that I'm in a lovely relationship with "Jess" and have been for a few days. Before I dated my friend and now girlfriend Jess, though, was my ex that I posted about around 2 weeks ago: Evangelina.

Evangelina and I were going great, until she told me she needed me for something. I asked what she needed me for, and she said she was horny.

I didn't know what to do, so I sent photos of my face and said "Here you go," but she asked for "different photos".

When I refused to give them to her because we'd only been dating for a few days and I'd been sexually harassed before, she said "It's fine, I get it." But then she blocked me??

[-] relation_anon4238 9 points 11 months ago

She also blamed me for talking to the guy when I was 12 and a young adult man tried to date me (20M)

[-] relation_anon4238 10 points 11 months ago

Thanks, she says we are friends

[-] relation_anon4238 10 points 1 year ago

I am so sorry to hear 🫂

My bully made sexual comments to other girls but told me my disability made me too disgusting to ever be SA’d because “no one wants a disabled woman”.

[-] relation_anon4238 9 points 1 year ago

“Ew, he’s ugly/He’s ugly, you can do better.”

[-] relation_anon4238 25 points 1 year ago

My dad included 😭

[-] relation_anon4238 9 points 1 year ago

And the amount of languages grows by one each time I learn a new one

[-] relation_anon4238 14 points 1 year ago

“You’re either with us or against us!”

I will do the second one 😆

[-] relation_anon4238 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

He thinks everything not supporting his “side” is fake and left-wing propaganda. I dated someone like that, actually. Didn’t go well but they became very leftist.

[-] relation_anon4238 12 points 1 year ago

I hate their views on autistic people so much.

[-] relation_anon4238 11 points 1 year ago

Dad has NPD. I will not trust him at all and I don’t even talk to him much anymore since he started staying in a hotel 30min away.

[-] relation_anon4238 10 points 1 year ago

He is indeed MAGA(?) but does not agree with certain talking points. He only is MAGA/right because he doesn’t like the left.

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