relation_anon4238

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What did your engagement ring cost, married/engaged people? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Aaaaaaaahhhhh amazing!

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What did your engagement ring cost, married/engaged people? (self.casualconversation)
 

To me, money isn’t everything. It’d be nice if I got something that cost a lot, but I’d also be fine with something cheap as long as it’s high-quality and not like a Temu ring or something.

We got each other the same ring off Amazon for $12.😂 😅

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 3 points 2 hours ago

Well, the very girl who bullied me in middle school happened to be a devout Christian. (Chino)

Was my fiancé considered abused by his ex? in c/[email protected]
Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 4 points 6 hours ago

I’ve not spoken to him since he moved to a hotel

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 11 points 6 hours ago

“You’re either with us or against us!”

I will do the second one 😆

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 4 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Calling someone a liberal when they are leftist is pretty insulting, even fighting words in some company

I didn’t know this, actually. Thanks!

Being called a leftist is only an insult if you base your politics on cruelty and hatred. And for such people the idea that you might think about someone else just doesn’t compute.

Very true. My father also is a narcissist, which is not to say narcissists can’t be good people with good intentions, but he is not one of them.

I’m sorry you are having to go through this, it is hard when we realise that our parents are not good people. Especially if they generally treat you well. And often these are the same people who first taught us the basic principles that matured into leftism. To share. To act kindly and be considerate. To tell the truth. To do what is right, not what everyone else is doing.

Thank you. 🫂 I completely agree.

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 4 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (3 children)

He thinks everything not supporting his “side” is fake and left-wing propaganda. I dated someone like that, actually. Didn’t go well but they became very leftist.

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 8 points 6 hours ago

I hate their views on autistic people so much.

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 9 points 6 hours ago

Dad has NPD. I will not trust him at all and I don’t even talk to him much anymore since he started staying in a hotel 30min away.

Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 7 points 6 hours ago (10 children)

He is indeed MAGA(?) but does not agree with certain talking points. He only is MAGA/right because he doesn’t like the left.

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Father called me a “leftist”. How is this an insult?? (self.goodoffmychest)
 

I don’t know where to put this.

I’m a bicurious/hetero young white woman with Christian white parents. My dad found out I support gay rights despite identifying as straight. He didn’t really like that I have a Hispanic fiancé (he was okay with it, but he was like “you could do better, come on.”)

He called me a “leftist lib” because I support interracial marriages, gay marriages, trans rights, etc. How can you use supporting these things an insult though??

I also really want acceptance as someone who is neurodivergent and has seen neurodivergent people and minorities be bullied/discriminated against and also has been bullied themself.

My (18F) fiancé (17M) is going to be in the military very soon, when can we talk after the fact and what do I do when I miss him? in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Makes sense. My friend’s mom agrees because her daughter survived men being creepy and she can’t date until she graduates high school or college (she’s 17)

Is her (14F) behavior also narcissistic or some bratty/traumatized kid? (Behavior does not always equal diagnosis) in c/[email protected]
[–] relation_anon4238 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Could be either as she’s an eighth grader. Either narcissism or just fake and abusive.

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My (18F) fiancé (17M) is going to be in the military very soon, when can we talk after the fact and what do I do when I miss him? (self.relationship_advice)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by relation_anon4238 to c/[email protected]
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I’m aware that this is probably a thing many people struggle with, their loved ones in the military. I’m one of them.

I’m proud of my gentlemanly fiancé. After all, he’s joining the military. But that’s the thing, after he turns 18, he will be signing up. My parents are very strict and we cannot actually see each other in person unless it’s somehow not considered a “date”. I have to be 21 to actually go on dates even if I am legally considered old enough.

Even so, he will be in the military, where there will not be a lot of time to go on dates.

I will not break up with him over this like one of his exes did. I am very proud that he’s joining, but I don’t know what to do when he’s away or to cope with loss.

Whatever I do, I won’t lose feelings for him.

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