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[-] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago

I'm always torn over that for my various accounts.

On one hand, I genuinely don't object to any pronouns being used for me, even in person. At most, if someone is being a jerk, I'd object to their motivations.

On the other hand, there are communities and instances (as well as other forums away from the fediverse) where having something there is a sign of support for those that do have pronoun preferences in a world that's really shitty towards such.

From my end of things, the act of leaving them off and accepting any that come is a statement that I don't see any gender applied to me as a negative thing. It isn't a bad thing if people think I'm a woman, a man, non binary, cis or trans.

So I end up in decision paralysis and just don't put anything there at all.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

Have you thought about putting [any] or [any pronouns]?

[-] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

Yeah, I'm just not sure if the any would be understood by itself, and I hadn't even thought about adding pronouns to it, which makes me disappointed in myself lol.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

Me moments before I use the correct pronouns to roast someone's bad take

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

Always surprised who has them listed, and sometimes what they are.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

Everyone is they/them unless specified differently

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

isn't they/them until proven otherwise is the safest, in any case such information isn't provided.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

The only thing Lemmings need to know about me is my username.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

The technology is not here yet.

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