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I asked if people chose iPhone for the blue bubbles elsewhere a couple days ago, and while there was some good discourse on that post, the blue bubbles definitely also came up as a reason.

In my experience, when people find out my texts are green, they oftentimes would rather switch to a different platform altogether like Instagram or just not text at all.

Is this actually a deal-breaker in friendships out there?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've never seen any blue or green bubbles. What messenger are you talking about? Will you really tell me there are actually people out there, using a basic built-in messenger ... for 90's SMS or MMS?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

The problem is that in the Apple cosmos the messaging app doesn't use SMS or MMS, so people use it to communicate quite a lot. Once you use it to message someone on Android though it reverts back to SMS/MMS. Same is true for group chats. 5 apple users are fine, but if you add a sixth person that uses Android the whole chat group goes back to the 90s. Including super pixelated images etc.

It's a stupid system designed to keep people in the Apple sphere.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Clearly people with iPhones around me feel like they are a tad bit more superior. But everyone is just using WhatsApp, even between iPhone users, so it cancels out.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I switch to signal with my android friends, vanilla SMS is rough, particularly for group messages

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure if it is possible for me to care less what type of phone somebody uses.

If I found out somebody was judging me based on my phone I would seriously consider breaking up with them.

I'm surprised and dismayed we are even having this conversation, and some of the other replies are deeply troubling.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I live in south korea, and YES. My friends say its a dealbreaker, although Idk the reasons.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm sure it is.

Just as driving a BMW is a deal-breaker for others. It's a good filter for avoiding people who are that shallow.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I convert all my friends to switch to Signal. If they like blue, then let's go there. E2EE and easy to use

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

99% of people in Europe either use android or older models of iPhone, that's my experience in Italy at least, here a flagship iPhone costs more than a normal/good salary (about 1500 a month after egregious taxing) and the new iphones I unfortunately happen to see the pricetag of all come to about 1800, really can't blame people here for using android or iPhone 6/7.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have seen so many instances of people who are happy with their Pixel or other Android device being forced to switch to an iPhone because the rest of their family uses iPhones, and it's specifically because of iMessage. It's really sad.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I could see some features they might want like texts not counting as an SMS or higher quality pics. Using an app fixes those issues so is whatever. Not texting at all is agreeable but don't expect me to reach out...

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