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[-] [email protected] 106 points 2 weeks ago

which bathroom they use tho?

[-] [email protected] 100 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks for revealing the serious "issue". We should have members of congress discussing this every single day and invest ton of money to legislate on the subject.

[-] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago

The clownfish deserve clarity, damnit!

[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

I just wanna pee in peace and safety without being looked at, talked to, heard, smelt, harassed, raped, beat up, mugged, arrested, or executed.

One time I was at the mall with my partner and some friends (all girls) and we were drinking bubble tea and shopping and hanging out, it was really nice. After a couple hours, we all had to pee and walked towards the nearest bathrooms. Everybody else got to go, and I was just too uncomfortable to go into either of the bathrooms, so didn't and was just physically uncomfortable for the next few hours while I held it.

I wish it wasn't an issue and I could deal with my own transition without the added riling up of people and possible legal issues of GOING PEE.

I honestly just avoid doing stuff now because it's so stressful and risky. I can't even leave the country anymore because I can't risk getting my documents confiscated and put on a list trying to get a passport. I feel like a second rate citizen in my home country. Land of the free: only if you're a cishet white man.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

It’s so fucking stupid. And the gotcha of “well, you don’t want the masculine trans man in the bathroom with your daughters” doesn’t work either. It’s not about bathrooms, it’s about not wanting us to exist.

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Apparently, this is the way 😐

[-] [email protected] 19 points 2 weeks ago

The male fish use anemones, the girl fish use awonemones

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago
[-] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

Ask a republican. They’ll have lots of opinions.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

The big blue one

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[-] [email protected] 67 points 2 weeks ago

One time I was talking to a friend of my parents (all Christian maga) about Cicada Killer wasps, and how the female is the deadly one that provides for the colony. The response from the friend was, "That's so backwards to nature!"

mind blown

Luckily, my mother saw the ignorance and replied with, "How do you think Lions hunt?" That was just as surprising.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

Humans are backwards if anything, humans are the invasive species, humans are superior only through war, killing and stealing from others.

Nature is beautiful. The human species is not.

[-] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago

No, humans aren’t weird at all. Read about parasites, River blindness, Surplus killing, Chimpanzee diet (note the abundance of monkeys in their preferred prey).

The only thing remarkable about humans is our success. We’ve been able to use technology to adapt to and survive in environments far from the ones we evolved in. Otherwise many insect species such as ants have been nearly as successful as humans, inhabiting every continent save Antarctica.

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[-] [email protected] 29 points 2 weeks ago

Turnin the fricken frogs gay

[-] [email protected] 21 points 2 weeks ago

Raises questions about the movie Nemo

[-] [email protected] 21 points 2 weeks ago
[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

Well, it was about growth. So I guess he transitioned to female at the end of the film.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

I'm happy for her

[-] [email protected] 19 points 2 weeks ago

This isn't even my final form!

sheds penis and grows boobs

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

Jokes aside, I think Frieza (at least the American VO version) was the first character that made me wonder about the gender norms forced upon us by the church. The voice and initial behavior was fairly feminine, but then it was supposed to be a male the whole time? Or maybe neither! I'm kinda glad they never really called it out. If they did, I missed it and wasn't a serious part of the plot.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

They've referred to Frieza as a "he" a few times in the English and original Japanese version.

As well as the non cannon movie about his brother Cooler.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

That's probably where I had the subconscious thought Frieza was intended to be a male.

No genitals, though! Just a lump, like King Cold and Coola. Wait... were those even tails?!

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Still bottoms

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I have genitofemoral neuralgia. According to my neurologist, my pain most closely resembles severe period cramps, and occasionally will manifest akin to childbirth.

Women are the stronger sex. Trust me.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Since I've had my IUD it's super sporadic and sometimes I kinda forget and then last week I wasn't even up trying to pass meds or lift patients or anything I was literally just sitting suicide watch and just doubled over in the chair wondering if I was about to involuntarily expel my IUD, the world's biggest shart, or both simultaneously. I wound up begging a coworker for a break and finding a bathroom off the unit to destroy.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

Nursing lyfe.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

Idk, I've had a vasectomy with no anesthesia.

But, there's really no standardized way to measure pain, so this conversation will always be moot.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Same here. They just did it in the office with a laser. Nothing in comparison. I have persistent lightning-like stabbing pain in one testicle. That’s what my neurologist likened to period cramps. It’s bananas that women can just go about their day in that condition. It’s way beyond distracting.

When I move the wrong way, the pain floods my entire groin, to the point of complete disorientation, visual white out, profound ringing in my ears, and freezing cold rippling chills throughout my body. I’ve almost passed out on several occasions.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

This is a great description of severe cramps. Please accept your honorary Period Enjoyer Certificate™ and also my condolences.

Hopefully they come up with a solution for yours, because the solution for mine was an IUD and it sounds like that one won't work for you.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you. Me too. I’m glad to hear you found a way to make your pain more manageable.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Your doctors have ruled out physiological causes of it?

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

It was initially caused by crossing my legs the wrong way and pushing back while sitting in an office chair. I was then misdiagnosed and had a surgery that compounded the problem with adhesions. It’s been a rough five years.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Only someone strong would want to have another child after having gone through childbirth before.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

Nemo and his father would have been a lot closer in a realistic version.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

Why do you think he was so desperate to find him? Did you see any other clownfish throughout the movie?

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[-] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

Does https://lemmy.world/c/196 know about this yet? Seems like a story that’s begging to be cross-posted if anyone knows how.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

its called sequential hermaphrodism, many fish do this, like wrasse. also thier sex determinism is very different mammals. as oppose to things like silmultaneous hermaphrodites: annelid worms, tapeworms.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Thanks for the share. This article led to https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sequential_hermaphroditism and then further down the rabbit hole. Hermaphroditism is wild.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

The strongest MALE becomes female, to be clear.

Anemonefish are protandrous sequential hermaphrodites, meaning they develop into males first, and when they mature, they become females. If the female anemonefish is removed from the group, such as by death, one of the largest and most dominant males becomes a female

[-] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

In what sense was that not clear

[-] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

I'm not sure but the part I'm still wondering is if you remove the female fish, and then some time later added it back does the second fish stop laying eggs and become the male again, or do they just fight to the death

[-] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

This sounds like the start of a great prequel to Finding Nemo

[-] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

An epic tale of a fish named Nemo finding out who they are, and then being forced back into a subservient masculine role. As a Broadway musical.

A bit weird but id probably still watch it.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

My less-than-normal thinking was Nemo's mom left, another Clownfish became female, then Nemo's mom returns and is like, "BITCH THIS MY HOOD."

That's how Nemo lost their mom, she just wasn't as tough as she thought.

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