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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah, about that... my Depression-raised dad didn't even think physical problems were an excuse for slacking or being negative. I think it was the general mood of the 30s when he was a teenager. There was very little public help for people in trouble - basically you could turn to charity or starve. So people were highly motivated to keep going in spite of whatever happened. Bouncing back from problems ASAFP was a survival trait. I always said if my dad saw me get my leg cut off by a chainsaw or something, he would probably run over and say cheerfully, "Oh well, you've still got your other leg, just hop!"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Yeah definitely feel like at least in America we treat physical illness that way a lot of the time too

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

If you have a physical illness you go to physical therapy, so if you have a mental illness you should go to mental therapy.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I agree with the message but its not entirely true becsuse once you treat the gaping wound, going on walks and just basic physical activity actually helps. It sounds stupid but touching grass is one of the best things you can do when youre in a bad place. Also this one adresses like one of the slides, the rest is bullshit people constantly tell eachother. Actually looking at the person on a deeper level and not just the surface helps a lot. What doesnt help is most people depressed nowadays arent depressed from some personal thing but from the cold hard truth that the world is a horrible place thats falling apart.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

As the closest friend of someone depressed, I have to say such illness isn't the same as physical illness. Sure all those advices won't change anything, but that's just because the person doesn't have the will to make them happen. People around the depressed person can definitely help, just by spending time with the person, and encouraging the person to accompany them to activities. Biggest danger is insisting too much as you might turn into a burden. Sometimes I think it's just better not to talk

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah, that would be weird. Except physical illnesses and mental illnesses are not exactly the same.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The difference is that when you're physically sick, there usually isn't much you can do to help yourself, but there's a lot you can do about many mental illnesses. I'm not saying it's easy or that mentally ill people don't need support and care, but these are not comparable.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

That's exactly what I'm saying. I don't agree with the comic.

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