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This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.

I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.

I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.

At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

I approve. Good work.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 days ago

Sounds like the right move. Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 days ago

Funny, I already had feddit.uk instance blocked so this is nice, lol.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 3 days ago

thank you mods

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago

It's a shame that that's their stance as I post on communities there fairly often and at least some of the mods have outwardly come to defend trans people in the comments of my posts before. That said, I understand the decision.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Thank you for facilitating a safe place and for the transparency

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

Blahaj admins try not to be based challenge (impossible)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

i was subscribed to a few communties there, might create a account there or a federated instance for those.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (13 children)

One user upset you and the admins didn't capitulate exactly how you wanted, so you're defederating...... You're making way more drama out of it than anyone else. How do you handle any sort of difficult situation in your life?

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