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What's bringing you joy?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (3 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Cycling now that the weather's warmer. My family and pets. Coffee and word games.

Thanks for the reminder to look for the good. I often feel like there should be so much more, but I know that's more than some people have, so I should feel lucky.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Post surgery sick leave. My body is still a bit fucked but it's also the most time off I've had in one go in years.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Rest well and I hope you make a full recovery and enjoy this time of peace in your life

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Hi all,

I have enjoyed all of the replies in this thread, and it has brought me happiness to read about yours.

I also recognize that not everyone is feeling joy right now, and that's ok too, life is not always fun to live, sometimes it's downright brutal. If you're going through a time like that, I wish you the best in getting through it, there are few forces stronger than the power of the human will.

I think there are a few main themes here in the replies that seem to be spirit boosters, and let's be honest none of these are unexpected, but I think it can be nice to have a reminder of what's good.

In no particular order :

  • Pets
  • Family
  • Friends
  • Children
  • Partners
  • Accomplishments
  • Projects
  • Art
  • Hobbies
  • Freedom
  • Teaching
  • Health

Now I don't think you need to have every one of these things in your life to truly be happy, but if you're feeling like nothing is bringing you joy, maybe one of these things might.

I think most importantly, gratitude is the attitude, if something is making your life better, taking a second to recognize it can make it feel even better. If someone is bringing you joy, make sure they know it deep down in their soul โค๏ธ

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I think I've done a reasonable job improving my dovetail jig.

That 12 inch Porter Cable model; it has some problems with repeatability. The reference marks are quite wide and positioned in a way to give a lot of parallax error. There was no real way to quantify how far you've moved the template in and out, which meant it's basically guaranteed to come out of alignment. So I took a knife to it. Scribed the alignment line around all the tines and put graduation marks on the brass thumb wheels. It's a lot easier to be deliberate in adjusting this thing now.

It still needs a few other things here and there, and I need to put those alignment marks on other templates. But it's a start.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Partner and kitties. When they (kitties) aren't screaming at me while I'm on the phone for work while wfh. So fucking rude. That's sarcasm. No one seems able to infer it anymore.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Cats are brats but too cute so they can get away with whatever

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Love my kids, love my wife. Feel useful at work. Getting rdy for the final stretch of my undergrad. Life is a grind atm and I don't have a lot of free time, but I wouldn't swap it for anything else.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Right now, I'm working a ton (72 hours per week) and my wife is working and going back to school, but every Tuesday is an entire day together. We just started playing Baldur's Gate 3 for the first time, and we look forward to it all damn week lol. We started like a month ago, but we're still only just now wrapping up the goblin camp. We both were already really familiar with 5e DnD, so a lot of the mechanics feel pretty intuitive to us. I have gripes with the camera (PS5 version) but overall it's a fantastic experience.

Before picking this up on sale, we were passing the controller back and forth through Astro bot. Also amazing! We rolled credits, and I'll probably aim for the platinum trophy at some point without her. There's truly not much left before we snag that, so she's not missing out.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My cat has been extra cuddly lately. Earlier she slept in my arms using one as a pillow.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

The closest friend i made since moving abroad alone 2 years ago, changed their mind and they are not moving out of the city. Also, two of my favorite bands put out killer new albums that fit the eternal combo of coffee+tobacco really well

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

My family. I feel really good that I can trust and rely on my parents, that I can talk to my brother, that I have my grandma close and still healthy. It's a privilege to be related to these people, to be honest.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Playing X4, despite the crashes.

But to be really honest, giving drawing lessons to 9-11yo kids. Something I never considered doing in my life, but damn does it make me feel good, though the kids' progress (or lack thereof) often leaves me wondering if I'm actually being any good

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Its summer here and I hate summers!! But I feel so greateful and happy that I am in a safe and comfortable enough environment to be able to be naked whenever it is too hot.

This is such a privilege considering I am a girl.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

As a never nude I commend your bravery and I hope you enjoy it to the full extent of the law

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