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If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Doxx them.

What, that isn't allowed? Well neither is white supremacist hate speech. Fuck that trash.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 25 minutes ago

Stop calling yourself leftist you hateful fuck.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 15 hours ago

Ignore them, then vote accordingly. Nothing you or I say will have any effect

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I tend to not reply because that will just draw more attention to them. I will post a separate top level comment rebutting their statements without referring to them.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago

That's a good strategy, thanks.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's a lot of other good suggestions here, so I'll just ask, what outcome are you hoping to achieve?

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

If that's the case, I'd recommend treating them like spam: reply and you'll get a lot more.

Mostly, it's a huge emotional and time investment if you want to change someone's behavior and from what I gather, it's a one on one type of thing and really hard. If you want to stop them from interacting negatively with others, your best action would be to report them.

If you're upset and want to vent, then engaging will be fun for a while, but mostly futile in terms of behaviour adjustments.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

If I respond, it's mostly for the 'audience'. I used to argue on r/libertarian or r/conservative, not to change the other person's mind, but to add a different opinion to the thread. I doubt I ever convinced the other person of anything, but hope I got other people to think a bit more about some of the policies being advocated for.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 23 minutes ago

This makes it look like the post is popular and draws more attention. Depending on the platform, it signals the algorithm to show it to more people.

Doing this is engaging exactly the way they expect you to engage, it helps no one.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Report their comments, most instances will ban them unless they comment on a Nazi instance in which case good riddance.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

If its a nazi instance, ask your admin to defederate.

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