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[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

Both. It's actually funny. Someone posted that image of alternatives to things like Reddit and Whatsapp and Google, etc, and it had Lemmy on it. I was at the point where I was getting sick of Reddit and had one account banned already. I joined Lemmy, and a few days later my other account got banned for up voting a comment that was just the gif of Luigi (the Nintendo character) smoking a cigarette. I had already decided I liked Lemmy more at that point, so whatever. The one thing that sucks is that I had my own little sub with a couple thousand members where I posted my writing, and people seemed to like it. I enjoyed sharing my stories with all those weirdos, and now I can't.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

During the whole API issue, I got a permanent ban from one of my favorite subs over a random and unimportant comment that included a stream of insults from the mod. It was completely unwarranted and pretty obviously was reactionary behavior by someone projecting their bad mood against the world. I sort of looked at my hands and wondered why I would ever want to spend more time on that toxic cesspool. I immediately stopped using the service entirely and moved fulltime over to Lemmy (had an account already, but I was only dabbling prior). I do miss some aspects of Reddit, but that Reddit started its painful death somewhere around Lockdown.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

Banned on some subs. Mostly just left because I saw it enshittifying.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I got a 7 day ban from Reddit and decided if they denied my appeal they were a lost cause. Tried blue sky, mastodon, a news app with comments, gave up on that. Then in an article about open source platforms asked if Reddit had one and someone replied Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I never used Reddit properly, Lemmy was also open source, I get no replies, no interaction on Reddit, nearly every comment and post I make on Lemmy gets someone to reply, it's almost impossible to go back to Reddit once you get used to you always getting some form of attention

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

I get no replies, no interaction on Reddit

Reddit is really fucking passive-aggressive about hiding/not posting stuff and not telling you. If I'm banned or a comment/post is removed, have the fucking balls to tell me. And no, I don't buy the argument of shadowbanning...it's really easy to figure it out simply by logging out.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

I am.

First, I got a three days ban for ‘prompting violence’. The flagged post said just literally ‘The Heritage foundation should be labeled as a terrorist group in Europe’. I appealed, just to get the temporary ban confirmed with no further reasoning.

But that was moot, because two days after that I got a permaban for ‘using multiple accounts to evade a temporary ban’. I just had an account, with a good number of years behind. I appealed this too, and got a ‘we are not changing this’ reply.

So I nuked my account, looked a little bit around and found this.

I miss some of the technical communities I was part in Reddit. But fuck them.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Never banned. Just moved over here after it was even more clear that they don't have our best interests in mind. And never did.

Same for Xitter.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I was the primary mod/founder for a fairly large subreddit. During the blackout protests Reddit threatened to remove my mod rights if I didn’t reopen the subreddit. I told them to get fucked, and my account was banned. They also removed the other mods and installed new mods. I haven’t touched the platform since and will never use Reddit again.

🖕spez

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I also privated some communities and they renamed them to some random characters instead.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

hence the powermods, im guessing thats how 92 mods consildated thier power and control over 500+ subs. you can hazard a guess of which subs are being control by these groups.

[–] [email protected] 120 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Left during the API thing, and everything I see confirms that I made the right choice.

Especially the fact that there are no investors to appease, no profit motive, and no advertising. It's like a slice of the old web.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Shout out to all my ~1 year 9 month old account homies

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago

Same here. Left and never looked back.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I left reddit during the api drama last year (more than a year?). I did it on principle. The content on lemmy is not comparable to the niche communities on reddit. Yeah, Steve Huffman is a little pissbaby or whatever the current meme is. But lemmy doesn't have the art communities or the weird goofy shit that reddit did, and as a chronically online loser, my life is a little emptier without it. And I know how stupid and unimportant that is, which is why I'm here and not there.

Plus the porn on lemmy is just like... so disappointing and sparse.

Unrelated- I'm ready to switch to Linux, but do I really have to learn what a distro is and how to build my own PC? Can't I just buy a Linux PC ready to go? Please?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Hey stranger! I switched for the same reason from reddit to lemmy and while I can't help you with the porn problem... you may want to look into Linux Mint.

There are very easy to understand guides online (e. g. on itsfoss.com you can find an installation guide, recommended first steps after installation, ...) and there are communities here on lemmy as well. So this may not be the same or a replacement for the communities you miss from reddit but maybe something new to focus on and a way to get in touch with other more or less chronical online people :)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 19 hours ago

almost any computer made in the last two decades can run Linux, I wouldn't recommend trying to use it on a laptop though (laptops frequently choose to think different [not follow specifications]). For distros I would recommend Debian because almost all software that is made for Linux gets tested on it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Switched for the same reason. I have the feeling that in the last couple of weeks lemmy got a lot more interactions, especially after Elon tried to ban posts on reddit, but maybe it is just a feeling. Initially I really missed Reddit. Some inside jokes where missing for my communities. Having this girl show up in everyone’s inbox felt like the first kind of sitewide memory to look back onto. I don’t miss the porn. Having to see crazy attractive people all the time made me feel bad. Would prefer fair trade porn if I seek it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

Nicole never messaged me and I miss the ol' switcharoo and beetlejuicing and r/catsstandingup :,(

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Perma banned for saying child rapists should get a taste of their own medicine.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I barely use Reddit now. I’ve unfollowed any sub that has an equivalent here.

The main one holding me back is that native speakers of my language are there.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I'm definitely banned permanently, I'm pretty sure I've got one of those evercookies somewhere that will make sure I stay banned, whether it's outright or a shadow-ban.

And it is mainly because of having engaged with some of the lowest of the low, deformed individuals that somehow inhabit there untouched. It had gotten so bad to where they would bombard my posts when I was ranting about things like my shitty job and they just dogpile on you for no reason other than they can because the mods aren't active enough.

I can't imagine what it is like now being there and trying to criticize Musk or something since he's apparently having a say now on it and Spez will bend over for his daddy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I'm currently trying out Lemmy because reddit is killing the Old Reddit interface and I refuse to use their shitty app or new interface website. Plus after using it I think it's kind of fun to have reddit but smaller and more curated. It's like Reddit used to be back in like 2012.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I had numerous accounts, some throwbacks going back 11+years, almost all were purged in feb12-13, due to them trying to eliminate and astroturfing any anti-right wing talking points. now they are assuming almost anyone is a bot. and the last one i thought was safe, was just shadowbanned recently

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

It's damn bullshit, you write something in Reddit, the stupid system thinks you're a bot and bans you... good luck appealing this shit, you'll be sitting there for months begging for a unban. Screw these lazy assholes.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I quit reddit and have no intention to go back. Its become total crap and full of boosted ads.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I jumped off voluntarily a little over a year ago when spez didn't like third party apps anymore and reddit went public.

Edit: damn it's almost been 2 years on lemmy. What a fucking ride

Edit: did you really just copy the same post as? There's no karma like on reddit you know that right?

https://lemm.ee/post/60400188

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

2 years?? Holy shit! Time flies...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago

Yes except for niche subs. I visit reddit about once a week now instead of daily. Can't wait for the day to come when I can leave for good.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I'm perma banned for spreading Luigi related posts.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The preponderance of flagrant double standards in moderation policies did it in for me. I deleted a 14 year old account when it became clear that there was going to be a clear effort on behalf of reddit's corporate leadership to push bullshit narratives and purge anyone who spoke up about it. I figured it was only a matter of time before someone invented a reason to ban me.

Turns out I don't even miss it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I noticed this first with AITA when it became clear that the mods were manipulating the sub for their own purposes. They would let obvious fiction in and ban people for calling it out. They also very selectively enforced standards and would only go after very specific comment types while ignoring very obvious abuse. Then I started seeing this behavior happen in pretty much all of the ask or story subs. Now you see it on Tik Tok and YouTube shorts--bots reading all these fictional posts into video shorts. It's bizarre.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Why not use the cross-post function? Original post is at [email protected] btw

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Not banned but I like here more. I left during the Exodus/ blackouts/shutdowns. In another life I was a mod for a moderately successful sub and after going into the rabbit hole and seeing the app timer increase to hours a day, I felt they could at least gift mods premium and they could skip ads. After some drama and a high caliber mod left the sub, I followed shortly after as the community has grown and changed.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I'm not banned, I just won't go there anymore.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like the fediverse more. I left during the api thing and think that the fediverse is the next step in social networking.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I'm banned off reddit. It was only a generic message i got saying I violated multiple rules. First it was my alt and then my main hours later. I have no idea what happened. Maybe me being on a public wi fi at a hotel and then someone there logged in two weeks later with a banned account so it got connected to mine.

With lemmy was active as reddit. Now it's just a read only site for me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I like Lemmy more, especially since it’s not corporate owned. The Reddit admins turned the site to shit purposely to push their greedy agenda, they instilled moderators that acted in bad faith for many subs, they allowed misinformation bots and other bad faith actors to run rampant, and they hosted ads to bet on US elections for months up until the day of the election itself. Truly and utterly disgusting behavior from Reddit.

Ellen Pao deserved better, Spez taking over is what enshitified the site.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I left reddit one December (think it was 2023). They showed off thier Reddit Recap. Realised I switched from windows to linux to AVOID data collection, then use an app that gladly showed off all the data they collect.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago

I have my Reddit account but I have sworn off posting there... I use Lemmy full time and visit Reddit out of curiousity sometimes, but most often logged out.

Lemmy is just so much better quality.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Unlike the rest here I got perma banned and then found Lemmy! 🥲

My opinions on a certain orange thing were a bit top radical for ol reddit.. but then again gore and murder Videos are okay.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Banned I don't know how to behave online.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I got perma banned for saying that Elon Musk should get "burned" in Canada for fraudulent sales numbers posted by Tesla in order to qualify for Federal subsidies.

They took me literally, and claimed I was promoting violence. My appeal got shut down in less than an hour. They "burned" my 8 year old account, for saying that Elon should get "burned" in Canada. The irony is real.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

My main and my alt still exist on reddit and have enough karma that I was offered stock options on both accounts.

Not going back because of the API fuckery. Coming up on 2 years on lemmy. Haven't looked back.

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