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https://old.reddit.com/r/50501/comments/1jg6r8o/reddit_isnt_safe/mj6qhaw/?context=10000

Already signed up. Got the login verification email, followed through and did the security thing, “type the word from our sidebar below” passed all that and can not login.

I appreciate that but don’t bother. I tried with the instance listed in this post and still got the same login issues even after receiving the email to login and passing the security check etc. I deleted the app. I’ve tried enough times and never had any success so I won’t be trying again.

I think they signed up at 50501.chat.

It's a shame that Lemmy is missing out on new users just due to signup issues.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

On Reddit you see tons of people giving up due to signup issues, usually due to emails I think. Instance admins should really double check their process and make sure it's all working often.

And the app devs too, if you can signup through the app gotta make sure it works on instances with captchas/email verification/etc

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Frankly? Good.

I hate to be the asshole, but if someone is either that stupid, or that unwilling to put in even the most basic effort, I don't want them here.

My mom signed herself up for lemmy. In her early seventies, kinda ignorant of tech stuff, and did it all on her lonesome. So did my 12 year old niece. So did my cousin with Downs.

Yeah, a kid with downs syndrome could manage to sign up for lemmy. Didn't need any help beyond "hey, hairball, which lemmy?". That's it. Just wanted to know what instance he should pick.

But he sure as fuck got logged in just fine.

So, when I see these people on reddit that can't be bothered to do what you would do on any website that you have trouble logging into, I'm perfectly fine with them not being here. They aren't going to be bringing anything useful with them at all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My bigest hurdle was choosing instance. I get paralyzed by not obvious choices.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I had the same problem. I just went with .world as the "default" and then spent some time learning about the different instances and moved to dbzero.

In all of it, I never had any problems.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

What a juvenile and elitist attitude. It's a fucking link aggregator, not a litmus test for someone's intelligence or value. Grow the fuck up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm not sure, I've met some lovely people whose technical incompetence is nothing short of incredible. And if you try signing up for an instance you've been recommended and the sign-up process is broken, I understand that it can be disheartening.

Sure, Reddit is full of bad actors who just want to discredit alternatives, and clearly these people are not trying hard and they probably don't completely understand what Lemmy is, but I think it's still worth listening to their concerns.

At this point I'm willing to believe your mother and cousin with downs are both more likely to figure things out than the average 20-something, for the simple reason that they are not used to everything being so goddamn easy and not offering the slightest resistance. When you see the discourse on Reddit, a lot of people seem to be unaware of the difference between platforms and apps. Which shouldn't be a problem, if they can contribute to a meaningful discussion about whatever they do have an interest in.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have many people in my disability support groups I recommended lemmy too and they were unable to use it.

(Our disability comes with severe cognitive problems and reduced energy, and trying to sign up was too much)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well, ngl, my disability/chronic pain support group doesn't run high to cognitive troubles. There's some, but it isn't a majority.

That being said, the only questions I've had are where about which version of a community to use. Like how there's a handful of C/s for a topic, which ones are worth using. Even the MS folks with significant brain fog haven't expressed any issues getting started.

But it may be a thing where some cognitive issues are more likely to have trouble with the signup process than others, I dunno.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Our disease has quite a bit less functioning than MS as measured on bell spectrum.

And one of the main symptoms are cognitive processing issues. It’s to the point where some more severe folk can struggle putting sentences together.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Would you believe I just now noticed your user name?

Makes total sense now. I've known a few people dealing with it, and yeah, it would definitely be an impediment to run into delays and hassles signing up for anything. Hell, breathing can be a barrier with ME/CFS.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Wow, rare to run into someone ME aware in the wild. Thanks for understanding ❤️

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I just wish everyone could understand. It's one of those "invisible" disabilities that catches a lot of flak.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

that unwilling to put in even the most basic effort, I don’t want them here.

That's the sort of gatekeeping that keeps a service as a tiny niche forever.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I would think that my comment makes it obvious, but I'm okay with that. Lemmy is working fine. Piefed and mbin interact with it seamlessly in most cases. Mastodon links up okay.

Niche is working. Not everything has to be market dominating

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Niche is working. Not everything has to be market dominating

I'm sorry but this is one of the more terrible takes I've seen people barf out on lemmy an the fediverse as a whole, the idea that "gRoWTh iSN't iMPoRtaNt bECaUse LEmmY isN't a cOMpAnY". The fact is this is a stupid argument because being niche hurts a social media platform's ability to be a social media, it hinders the amount of interaction you can get, and it stifles more niche communities to the point they can't even get off the ground at all.

This whole thing about growth not being important is one of those Fediverse talking points that needs to be shot dead right here, right now.

Gatekeeping platforms and trying to keep out the "laugh and upvote" crowd is not helping anyone, it's hurting this platform, because people not getting interaction on their posts, or their communities being dead in the water because not enough if any people here are interested really kills motivation, and is likely part of the reason we saw a dip in Lemmy activity after the initial Reddit API exodus. Why do you want to gatekeep these people so much anyway? Most of them are only going to laugh, upvote, and consume content here, chances are you won't directly see most of them. Yet they are one of the more important parts of a social media platform since they give it life and energy and activity, that just wouldn't be anywhere near the same without them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's fine for memes, news, and politics...but it's still pretty lacking in a lot of the smaller and more unique content that made reddit worth visiting regularly.

As much as you're okay with it, there's plenty of people who would like to see federated services grow enough to be established mainstream alternatives. How much complaining has there been that Bluesky took off as as the trendy twitter alternative instead of Mastadon?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't understand the downvotes you got. The same people will complain when a profit driven reddit alternative springs up to take the mainstream while Lemmy remains niche because they wanted a kind of exclusive club. Being unfriendly to the user is a recipe for failure.

On the flip side, the biggest forum on the internet being shared, distributed and owned by its' users would be an incredible win.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I appreciate you.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Eternal September is the goal?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

It's curious how so many people on this community about discussing the growth of the fediverse view the fediverse growing as a negative.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Were you even alive when Eternal September happened?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was born before the Reagan administration

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

That doesn't prove anything. You could have been 12 in 1993 if your we're born during the Carter administration leaving you in the same cohort those bitchless knobs were whinging about back then.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago

You asked if I was alive. Yes, I was.

Was I on Usenet? Nope, but my family were very early adopters of computer and internet technology 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The fact that this trash comment got 60 up votes IS the main issue.

A large group of Lemmy actively wants to stay a elitist circle jerk...

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

TIL that expecting a tiny slither of effort from participants is "elitist"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

The instance admin is literally in this thread acknowledging that their mail server is having issues. Doesn't matter how much effort the users put in if the verification email never goes through.

Seeing that someone is having trouble signing up, and jumping to the conclusion that it's the user's fault, might not even be elitist, just dumb.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

This was more celebrating that a problematic email server was preventing new users from signing up.

Assuming it's because the user is stupid or lazy, that's the elitist part.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I tried to make a sh.itjust.works account earlier today as a backup, when I verified the email I couldn't login, it told me my details were incorrect, the details I'd just saved in my browser from the account creation process. Shit does not just work.

I mean I'll get around to making another account on another instance, but sh.itjust.works has account creation issues. The people acting elitist about it are fucken gronks because they haven't actually experienced the issue.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

sh.itjust.works

Give that link a try again otherwise as @[email protected] mentioned send us a PM with your account and we'll manually verify it.

Thanks

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Database query says it's already verified

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hey there,
Sorry you've had issues.
If you can PM me your email I can take care of it.
I'm also on Matrix, which might be ideal as lemmy PMs aren't exactly secure (they can be read by your local admin as well as the remote admin, so mihht not bmuch of a problem in this case, but still)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Can you check by user name? Same u/n, your instance.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Your email was already verfied in the database, but if you follow that link again lemmy just tells you it failed instead of telling you it's already verified.
You should be able to just login.
If not let me know.
Worst case it might need a password reset.
We did test new signups again this morning and it worked.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I went through the pw reset process, set a new pw and it let me login. Thx

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 week ago

Dunno about the person I was replying to, but I was assuming they were lazy. And potentially stupid, but mostly the laziness was the critique.

"Oh no, I clicked the button and it didn't do what I thought it would. Oh well, I give up! My time is too precious to try any sort of critical thinking. I'll just post on reddit instead. Updoots to the left, thanks for the gold kind stranger. Dopamine boost achieved."

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Idk, I'm on lemm.ee because I tried sh.itjust.works and just never got an email. It is frustrating when it happens

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I accidentally did one for ml and world's and never got a response, realized those are authotarian sites

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Really dodged a bullet with ml

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Good. Let the stupids hit the darwinian great filter of "figure out how to make an account with more than 2 brain cells" and never make it here. Will hopefully mitigate yet another eternal September.