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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not really. I find that most "pop culture" still gets talked about, it just doesn't get pushed into everyone's face by an algorithm.

If I drift away from my subscribed feed and look at the all feed, it doesn't take long for something or another about pop culture to pop up. And then if I'm interested, I go to the particular community that's talking about it and subscribe. The more I do that, the more interests start to show up in my subscribed feed.

For the most part, these communities all exist, there's just no algorithm saying "hey...you'll probably like this". And so you have to find them yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Ooooh, we do need a Eurovision community if we don't have one already.

Edit: there's one at [email protected]. I'll see you there!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

YES LETS GO! Subscribed. That place better be popping off in May.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Anything black/“urban” generally gets heavily downvoted on Lemmy. Haven’t figured out why. With all the other heavy virtue signaling you’d think it would also be pushed.

It’s one of the many things that aggravates me about my experience here. I went back to Reddit after over a year of only spending it here.

It has gotten better though.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago

Yes and I love it

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I feel it, but to me it's kind of positive.

Like, I can belong to a social group without being bombarded with nonsense that is just noise meant to distract.

It's the same kind of liberation and control I felt when switching to Linux (since you mentioned it) - one decision, and the entirety of Windows drama is no longer relevant to me. I'm part of a much smaller, much more concentrated group of real people, in a sort of blissful silence to which I only admit the information and people I find worth my attention.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (4 children)

That's why I'm here. This week, I learned who Kendrick Lamar and Drake are, and I feel stupider for it.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I specifically came here because I was uninterested in the pop culture chat that I was seeing in my socials. I want to talk to more people in less mainstream nerd culture

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Hmm.. maybe? But I'm ok with it. All those things in your second paragraph are things I'd never care about anyways.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I made a community for survival horror games because I like them and like talking about it. Build it and they will come. Make a community to talk about things you like and those with similar interests will join.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We did have a Luka to the Lakers over on [email protected]

Just saying.

I’m exclusively on the fediverse, I don’t feel disconnected from pop culture at all. There is a lot of politics and meta discussion, I’ll give you that

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Subscribed, thanks! I searched NBA on the global community search and got nothing, I wonder if it just wasn't federated on my instance yet.

I wish I was there losing my mind with the rest of you last week

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It’s hard to figure out why some communities show up and others don’t on the search. It’s definitely a good idea to subscribe to [email protected] and other communities like it to make sure you don’t miss them when they come up. I think someone was working on a better search for Lemmy but it seems to be abandoned

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Thank you, I couldn’t remember the latest community address when typing out my reply

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, post the content and people will come? I think a lot of people would have commented on these things if they saw the thread

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

This is true, but 1) It's hard going from a passive consumer of a community to a facilitator of discussions (I have anxiety issues lol) but also 2) It's hard to even know/find if there's a community TO post in, you know?

Maybe I'm just a Lemmy noob after almost two years here, but I do find community discoverability harder here, and there's always discussions of fractionating communities even further. I don't want to risk creating a new community, take up server space that my instance host generously provides, and then find out it was redundant.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (4 children)

DAE is what? I know, but i need reminding.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (3 children)

"Does anyone else" sorry, I was trying to keep the title snappy

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