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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I mean, our new Dear Leader’s best oligarch buddy threw two very unambiguous Nazi salutes inside of five seconds during a nationally televised speech, and the vast majority of our media establishment is simply bending over backwards to give him the benefit of the doubt over his “awkward hand motion”. So yeah I’m in a bad fucking mood, because this shit is going to become de rigueur.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

👍I envy you and applaud you at the same time (being serious here, not snarking).

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thank you. I found that if I don't doomscroll and just look up subjects I like.. Then easier to be on good mood.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If I may, Arts & Letters Daily has a lot of interesting links that generally aren't too overly tied to current events, and can provide a nice break from the world as usual. Aeon is also good.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I'll check that out. Thank you!!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Everyone seems to be doomscrolling

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

Been outside or watched the news lately. What’s there to be in a good mood about?

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 day ago (2 children)

My coworker said to me today that all the news outside of the US is calling us Nazi America and this goes hand in hand with my own international news reading experience in the last day. I think everyone is acknowledging how dumb we look and how it affects them?

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

As someone from "outside the US": It isn't much better elsewhere. Italy has a fascist government, France is fucking up everything, Sweden has a governemnt depending on a borderline fascist party, the Netherlands has borderline fascists as part of the government, in Germany open fascists poll at 20% as the 2nd most popular party (elections are next month), Georgia is on the brink of civil war, Korea is in a utterly weird crisis/coup mode, in the middle east we are having a genocide happening, Sudan is in chaos, and so on and on.

On the bright side: Things appear to be somewhat okay in Spain and Belgium seems to have a somewhat half-working government.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Spain's unemployment rate is 12.29% so not that great there.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Sounds about right. My wife has friends abroad that have been calling and asking if everything is alright, then start the questions of how we let this happen, why don't we do anything about it, etc. And I'll be honest, I do feel pretty helpless at the moment and very uneasy about the next period of time. I've been reading quite a bit about WWII and how Germany got into their situation, and almost too much if it parallels. Most of the population was sick of the status quo and wanted change, those who spoke up and tried pointing certain things out were labeled as worrying lunatics, and most of society was too ignorant to care until it was too late. I mean, what the hell is an individual to do? I could grab my rifle and take to the streets, and immediately get gunned down by cops, or start writing letters that will pretty just get me added to a list at this point.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Well they didn't have any past government examples to use as a warning. News and communication back then was also much more limited.

I could grab my rifle and take to the streets

They literally had street battles with armed communists and ww1 veterans fighting each other. The average person was so horrified of living in a war zone that they voted for any party who could stop it.

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[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (10 children)

Certainly, there is a grim atmosphere across many social platforms. Mainly, the last few days from my anecdotal experience.

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[–] [email protected] 71 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I keep having this and similar conversations with my wife and my friends and family .....

The majority of the world has always been in a bad mood because 90% of planet has always been poor, struggling, doesn't have enough, live in poverty, are hungry and are generally not happy.

The only difference is that us in the rich west have been recently affected and are facing a near future where our comfort and freedoms are going to be affected. We are starting to feel what the rest of the world has been feeling for a long, long time.

I say all this from the perspective of an Indigenous Canadian because I grew up poor and in a circumstance where me and my family were always made to feel less than the rest of the Canada.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The majority of the world has always been in a bad mood because 90% of planet has always been poor, struggling, doesn’t have enough, live in poverty, are hungry and are generally not happy.

On one hand, there is absolutely harsh struggle around the world for the vast majority of the world.

On the other hand, it's not as if most people are never in a good mood. Australia's state broadcaster (ABC) had a show where people in small or disadvantaged groups answer anonymous questions, and when it came to Sudanese Australian refugees, a few were saying that life in Sudan was often happier despite their material struggles. IIRC a main part was that they had a collective culture, in some places outside of the cities even a communal village culture, and where good fortune was cause for celebration. Some contrasted that with our largely individualist, money-centric culture here.

All that to say, money doesn't buy happiness, poverty doesn't guarantee sadness. Money and other resources really really help, but it's far from the whole picture.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's the looming boiling point. More and more people understand things are going to come to a head Sooner Than Predicted™.

What we're seeing is grief, but multiplied by billions

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago (9 children)

Don't know why you were downvoted but you're absolutely right. We thought we were moving in the right direction, only to have the foundations blown out from under us.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can find people in a good mood, but not on Lemmy :P

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

But what if I don't want to go to a nazi rally?

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've spent an astronomical amount of effort trying to remove as much depressing and outrage content from my feeds as possible. It's a sisyphian task with new things constantly slipping through the cracks. Which has made me mostly check out of all but a very small list of online spaces (and even then ads and other impossible to turn off 'recommendations' show up).

Outrage and depressing content fuels the web and it's best to recognize that. I've been a lot happier in my ignorance so far and would recommend it to anyone who's privileged enough to get away with it. It's not like being informed and engaged did fuck all for me in the last decade except give me a variety of mental issues.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I'm in a pretty bad fucking mood but I kind of figured that was more my problem.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Who are you referring to as "the whole world", specifically? People on Lemmy? Leftists? Your friends IRL?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

Im in a bad mood. I cant speak for others. But the world is fucked up.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago (9 children)
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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We felt it last year. A building up of something. A sense of impending doom. Feelings of grim.

Things are worse especially with Trump making noises about using the American military to take resources. I don’t know who put the Panama canal and Greenland into his head but here we are. He is a guy who would do it too. Making us axis and not ally this go. That’s grim.

Pick and choose your outlets but don’t stick your head in the sand.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I don’t know who put the Panama canal and Greenland into his head

Seriously, it feels like he just crawled out of his basement full of bizarre obsessions.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

The world it just ain't right, it keeps me up at night

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 day ago

Not just you. Lots of negative feeling going around. If I could put a word to what I saw today, it would be "grim".

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