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[–] [email protected] 48 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Me: "I like pancakes"

Lemmy: "Only a shitlib western imperialist would think that. Read more Lenin."

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago

Me: “I like waffles”

Lemmy: “HOW THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO GO MY LIFE WITHOUT PANCAKES YOU OPPRESSIVE INSENSITIVE FUCK”

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[–] [email protected] 67 points 4 days ago (1 children)

And yet, you assumed an image on catbox would work on my device. Interesting.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

lol. It’s just iOS, voyager, vpn, and ad blocking are not conducive to seeing hosted images.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I’m on iOS, using voyager, proton vpn, and a 3rd party ad blocker and the image loaded just fine for me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 4 days ago (3 children)

-"Russia should not invade a sovereign country, murder its citizens and deport their children."

-"Umm, actually, the US were doing crimes in Syria and you should not support them."

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 4 days ago (8 children)

A large portion of the world is experiencing political polarization. I see the same things happening on Lemmy happen on other social media websites.

The “if you don’t agree with me you must have the exact opposite opinion” approach to debate seems to be more a problem of the participants than the platform.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Pretty much every time I dare to say anything negative about Russia or China I'm swarmed with illiterate tankie lemmings who jump into the conclusion that criticising one empire automatically means supporting the other empire.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I find that people that do this are often well informed on leftist theory, but know almost no history. I guess it's hard to accept that governing is exceptionally difficult and governments built with the best intentions are still subject to authoritarianism. Also, those governments weren't built with the best intentions, lol.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago (2 children)

wow can’t believe this guy wants me to kiss nazis on the lips /s

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago

I like that the name of the platform has been written over.

"This is only happening locally here at and not at ". And that's happening for every place in the internet.

Marvellous

[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 days ago (1 children)

On Lemmy it's more like:

"I don't like pancakes."

"Oh, so I suppose that waffles are perfect huh??"

[–] [email protected] 37 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Nah, it’s more like “you should delete windows now and get Linux”

[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I agree that conversations sometimes end up being about Linux, which is unfortunate. People seldom recommend installing BSD or other free systems, which is a shame. The lesson here is that we should all install OpenBSD.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 days ago

Bravery is leaving both the ifunny and imgflip watermarks.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

In my experience, this happens way less on Lemmy than on Reddit before the IPO.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

i can’t speak to the frequency but the tone is definitely different when it happens here compared to on reddit, probably influenced by the demographic and field of interest differences. the ml roots of the place really have echoed throughout the tone of the space, so most of the arguments have a really cynical, high alert, almost superstitious affect to them that i never really encountered on reddit. (some random account i thought i was cool with is trying to like psychoanalyze my recent posts to find my true intentions? i gave up on that convo)

your mileage may vary, of course!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

your mileage may vary, of course!

Blocking all of .ml makes your experiences vastly more pleasant

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (2 children)

TBF, I understand this annoying kind of 'reading into it'. at the same time, if someone starts dropping dogwhistles or starts dancing around something in a convo, i am definitely gonna read into that shit.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

If you don't like waffles just say it...

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (5 children)

This is anywhere on the internet.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What…. This is on par with any kind of internet discourse. It’s pretty much why I hardly ever post prior to Lemmy. It doesn’t matter how well articulated the post, SOMEONE will find the need to correct or clarify unnecessarily.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (19 children)

it’s really sad because i take great pride and pleasure from reading other people’s thoughts and posts. but when i try to give back, it’s immediately jumped on by dogpilers and “oh you actually meant something else…” people. and when i do the bare minimum to defend myself, they slap back with the “okay buddy, sure” and downvote my defense so it’s invisible to other readers.

needless to say my blocklist is nearing 100 users.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I like to insult and block these people. My fear of course, with Lemmy being so small, is I will block everyone. Then again, that's still better than dealing with illiterate, contrarian assholes

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I feel the same way, then I look at my blocklist and it's just lemmy.ml, anime subs, 3 people, some political terms, and a bot. I also have a .world account I use when I want to view the whole Lemmy experience anyways. Tbh I still feel kinda bad about blocking .ml, there was some cool peeps on there but I just can't deal with all the tankie drama

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (8 children)

One time I said AI porn was unethical (because it is) and people here thought I was calling for a ban on all porn. At no point did I say that porn was unethical as a rule, and if I did believe that I wouldn't have mentioned AI at all.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (2 children)

It'd be nice if we could regulate porn in good faith. Every attempt to regulate it in the US has been an obvious attempt to shut it down, but it should be regulated like anything else. Sex toys, too. Lots of questionable substances are used in sex toys that probably shouldn't be inserted into the human body.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I'm convinced that most people don't read anything before sharing their opinion. An opinion with zero relevance or weight is absolutely useless.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yeah but I preffer the pineapple before the pizza, that way the mass feels saltier.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Why do you think you're better than us?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Yep that's one of my pet peeves about the Internet. People love to try to put words in your mouth. It gets a bit tiring having to tell every one of those jabronis that I never said any of those words, and they should re-read what I did actually write instead.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

You hate Lemmy????!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

That’s French toast erasure.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (4 children)

So you're saying Twitter is better?

/jk

Sure, it happens here, but I feel the toxicity on Lemmy is far less then on Reddit or other platforms, and with toxicity I mean including people assuming you're saying something else because they are triggered somehow. But it's very hard not to stumble upon people like that. Trolls rule the universe, they are everywhere.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

I also feel like posts like these are specifically part of the toxicity, encouraging it because "haha funy"

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I just ignore and block if it continues. I got no time for people who are responding to the voices in their head instead of what I'm actually writing.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I see more Motte-and-bailey fallacy.

I see less "I like pancakes" and more "I think pancakes are superior to waffles" from the first commenter.

Then the second commenter responds, "So you hate waffles?"

Then the first commenter retreats to "No, I just like pancakes. Why are you assuming what I'm saying? Don't you understand I'm being nuanced?"

Also, nuance is one of the more recent words to have a new usage like literally, which can now mean figuratively. When people say their argument is nuanced they mean it is good or correct. It reminds me of the use objective to describe a person to pretend they don't have biases to incorrectly validate their arguments.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Prior to the US election, there were many people that did this exact thing- only it was “oh yeah? Well… you support genocide!

They’re rarely here anymore. Which is what was predicted that typically warranted their response to begin with.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (4 children)

how dare you say we piss on the poor

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