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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

PAS protests and complains the Pesta Songkran to be held at a resort in Ipoh, citing it a religious insensitive issues. PAS and the organizer compromised and renamed the event [1] to, wait for it:
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(P)esta (A)ir (S)ungai

[1] https://worldofbuzz.com/politicians-ban-songkran-festival-in-perak-resort-valley-management-changes-event-name-to-pesta-air-sungai/

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

On the other hand, the resort acknowledged that it was indeed their fault to use the term “Songkran” which may have caused confusion, and further explained that despite the name, the River Festival will not be like how the Siamese celebrate Songkran.

If it’s not meant to be celebrated like Songkran, do you think the change in name is wise?

You thought it's Radical Conservative PAS but it's me, Political Correct PAS!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

So much for PAS won't trample on the rights of non-Muslims.

Anyway, you got a source for that?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

That's the part where my old Malay ass has been eyerolling for the last two decades when my non-malay atas friends are like, takpe takpe. The atas Malays too but they dah terkena for a while now already.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Tbf, the Non-Muslims are in a tough position. Put up too much of a fuss, we're branded kafir la, pendatang la, tak hormat la. We can only fight back when the moderate Malays push back together with us.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Oh I absolutely get that fear. Queer ppl with other privileged identities can share the same concern. The thing is that last bit though - were moderate malays invisible or something? We're right here. Always been here. Bila buka topik, don't want to campur tho -"ah, never mind la your thing one". That's what I'm responding/reacting to, that very specific willingness to don't bother (and to use DukeGR4's comment as an example pov that I'm also talking about here). Of course have to stay safe - I'm just saying oh now worry la, dulu org lain kena sell down the river tolong cover line pun barely there. Don't even have to speak up unnecessarily, that just invites trouble - but to swerve and use a small thing example: no need so excessively worried if this biskut or that cake halal right in front of me if I didn't ask you to worry (and maaaaaybe that person is unofficially non-practicing but can't say nothing cos it's a crime). In terms of where I'm situating my response is not like Terengganu where mainly KT yg ada non-Malays. I'm talking about Klang Valley and similar places where it's demographically a situation of at least two ethnic socioeconomic majoritarian blocs. I think from this pov is why ppl always bring up Borneo enviously but part of that social pact is looking out for each other.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

speaking from Chinese perspective - it's not an issue for them because they most likely have benefited from the system. Most, if not all successful businessmen in my Chinese town were actually pro BN. BN had good business policies that essentially wiped out all the competition in many industries so long as you are willing to work with Malay stakeholders.

also cash is king, with money they can buy the best experience possible to distract them from reality. they can afford to fly first class to Paris to eat Kuah Sone and Bak Kut Teh when they experience minor inconveniences lol. what does oppression of non-muslim rights even mean to them lol, and why should they give a damn about the plight of commoners.

in many ways it's probably like medieval kingdoms and their subjects, you have nobles living behind walls but their subjects don't even have bread to eat and having it tough out there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh yeah that social pact where they're benefiting is extremely clear, and your comment is very much about the kind of people I've been sideeyeing for decades now. If anything, just fly. In the meantime the poor non-Malays can suffer sorang. The Malays, no need to say la. To quote their favourite politicians: melayu malas and mudah lupa mah. We'll just keep scamming anyone who's open to be scammed.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

If anything, just fly. In the meantime the poor non-Malays can suffer sorang.

tbf this is the job of the government, i don't think it's any private citizen's burden (regardless of race) to uplift poor individuals from poverty. by right, if you pay your taxes you have already done your part.

that said, if you haven't noticed, Chinese have a lot of Clans and Associations, and they are usually funded by rich Chinese businessmen also. they don't exactly issue cash handouts to poorer Chinese, but there's definitely money in it (scholarships, contracts, employment, networking, trade etc). it's not much, but at least it's something. Think of it as western equivalent of dole, except it's not guaranteed and there's only so little considering how time consuming their activities are.

It's also a Neo-Confucius tradition to encourage education and many Chinese businessmen donated loads of money back to their former schools. My SJK(C) was almost entirely sponsored by a few Datuk Seri and a Tan Sri for example.

The Malays, no need to say la. To quote their favourite politicians: melayu malas and mudah lupa mah. We’ll just keep scamming anyone who’s open to be scammed.

This guy is internally racist. there are many Malays out there that have it hard as they represent a vast majority of the B40 cohort. But what they really should be fighting of is decentralisation of the Government and give local councils and states more autonomy and the ability to raise revenue to fund public infrastructures for the local people. This is the only way to uplift poverty and improve social mobility. that and combined with good healthcare system.

Campaigning for a more racist government does not achieve anything, it's fucking expensive to oppress citizens. and yes, there is a cost of not empowering your citizens. I know firsthand through work that gender pay gap alone (due to systematic oppression) cost billions lol due to unrealised productivity.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

tbf this is the job of the government, i don’t think it’s any private citizen’s burden (regardless of race) to uplift poor individuals from poverty. by right, if you pay your taxes you have already done your part.

I absolutely agree on the obligations of the state and the purposes of taxation, and I'm noting even yourself complicated the opening position that it's not any private citizen's burden with your following paras. BUT-- while economic class is absolutely a complicating factor here, my main argument is on racism (both bilaterally between the main majorities but also unilaterally from those with institutional power). Wealth has managed to shield to a certain extent the effects of these encroachments (to keep within the Muslim-Malay world; how can certain royals can have wine in KL hotels and some random people will get arrested for drinking beer in Setapak? and of course, no one bothered that Malays are being arrested by the religious police, until these moral vanguards decide to make it everyone's problem by bullying your 7-11s and Famimas to change their cold drinks inventory).

Part of the valid reasons for affirmative action was because European/Asian colonialism (Britain and Japan to a large part of the country; Dutch and Siamese in certain territories) left native & indigenous groups poor while the migrant populations were oppressed and dikerah tenaga in a different way and they're told to be satisfied that they're serving an extractive economy because at least "we work hard, not like those natives who live in the kampungs". I can see you also agree how racist and divisive this is. I bring this up, because the Chinese-community charitable works are great and no reason to discontinue them (and not to mention, in the absence of institutional support that's where charity comes in, but it shouldn't be pervasive and neither should it replace institutional support). But (small but) that ability to economically empower ourselves has been uneven (and note in this exchange I'm not even touching the situations of the Indian and OA communities respectively who have even less communal wealth to go around), and this unevenness arguably contributed to the lack of solidarity and the don't-bother/tidak-apa attitude.

my big thing is basically this: i love that we have a very mixed, diverse, and heterogenous society, that is still, just like other post-colonial states, is trying to make its way forward. But does that fact hinders solidarity? I don't think it should and it's not like the 1960s & 70s didn't exist (and if it stopped existing, it required a lot of uh, state action). How is it PAS boleh naik minyak complaining about Pesta Songkran when it shouldn't be their business to complain? Well, because they had practice - and that supposed almost 60% of bumiputera population also includes... Borneans, so it wasn't much of a demographic majority either, what more an economic one, because mana Melayu at the time between 1970s to the 1990s that was wealthy enough to seed the schools, the papers, the magazines, the theatres, the cultural troupes to push back? (ETA: and takkanlah kaum bukan Cina yg lain don't have a cultural code that values education and cultural continuity?) So kena telan, kena tahan, and then nowadays kena kecam, for not trying hard enough at being moderate.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

TLDR in meme

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

That's one way to call it. Lewd...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Good morning people, is Windows 11 good now? I am still reluctant to upgrade from my trusty 10.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, until today there are still people who complain or dislike it. There are some tweaks you can do to make windows11 better from what I heard. Personally speaking, I don't really want to upgrade to 11 either.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

what do people complain about tho... i think when Vista came out there are people out there that die die want to be on XP.

And it seems people are even more reluctant to switch to Windows 11 lol. I'm an NPC non-power user, for me it feels like a great skin with modern UI design and it feels more intuitive to use.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Personally I'm holding out trying W11 as much as I can, either until my work laptop/PC gets refreshed, or I buy a new laptop/PC. W10 is supported up to October 2025, so there's still time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

yea it's good, zero issues. been using it since 2021.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

10 probably gonna be my last windows as it was originally intended. after support ends maybe i'll just jump into the linux ecosystem.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fuck Rapid KL. Didn't even bother to do a proper post about their technical issue

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

wtf man I don't want enshittification happening IRL to our PT operators 😩

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah this is what they have become nowadays, sadly.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hope you managed to arrive home safely.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Not gonna lie I almost died inside when I saw that comment since I just passed by lembah subang as I opened Lemmy lmao... But should be only specific train issue

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think you were a train behind me. I was at Glenmarie or Ara Damansara when I posted that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

aiya, almost can meet liao XD

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hahaha next month BG at Uptown Damansara!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't know can go or not... Need to get a ride to go board games :(

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Lolololol not Harakah Daily PROUDLY comparing Sanusi to Trump, Putin, Xi Jinping, Duterte and Viktor Orban 🤣🤣🤣🤣

https://harakahdaily.net/index.php/2023/08/16/sanusi-kebangkitan-dan-perubahan-ke-atas-politik/

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

You can never accuse them of not knowing their own brand 😌

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

A few words in the article e.g., strongman, tamadun...etc., suggest the shill writer must have been caress his own tits to utter out that piece of nonsense.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Damn. I think I pass the exam.

Just got word that 42 people fail this one exam. That's half my class. And they'll send an email to people that have to resit.

Haven't gotten any email so far. Mann still couldn't believe I pass. Don't know what to feel. I must be that smart. Or the students here are fkin dumb

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

In case it's true: congratulations! If not: takpe, good luck for resit!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Dang, congratz!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Shouldn't have down so many roti canai this morning, too many carbs, almost vomited just now, and couldn't finish my lunch. Haiz, but it's okay i'm a light eater, save money 🙈

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

bruh how many did you eat to vomit?

I can eat 2 roti canai double telur and still be hungry (serious). I think i can go 4 if i'm silly enough

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago
  1. Really, i think 2 is all i can take, but i feels like it's more of the carb telling me i'm full and then induce all these effect, instead of really full.
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

just bought a pair of Ultraboost 1.0, but i think i'm going to return it. I only bought it because i thought it looked sleek and it actually fits unlike the NMD.

some people swear how comfortable Ultraboost 1.0 are. i think they have obviously never owned a pair New Balance. The issue is there's little padding, and the base is also too thin, flexes way too much and it lacks stability. It's also terrible for driving and I can't do heel-toe properly.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Before Ultraboost, I get frequent arch foot pain. After getting my first pair, I can walk way longer distances without getting the pain now. Although, may consider New Balance as my next pair because I have no brand loyalty and willing to try new things.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I have a pair of 327, it's by far the most comfortable sneaker i ever had. doesn't look like it but once your foot is in it just makes sense. Recently got a pair of 580, it's less comfortable initially but after breaking in it's pretty good as well loads of padding.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

was beatboxing just now and felt a sharp pain in my throat, then i tasted blood. now i have sore throat... bruh

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Please take care! I have been sick very often lately and I can barely sing nowadays because I keep having post nasal drip...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

post nasal drip

i got that recently, annoyed the heck out of me so i saw a doctor she said it was an allergic reaction basically causing my tear duct to shut.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

yeah, doc told it me it was allergic reaction the first time I visited. the second time it was because I had too much cold stuff so my nose got all stuffed. but even if I don't eat cold stuff my nose can get stuffed as well...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

torn vocal folds or something? don't overdo it and rest. gws

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