I'd only use sshfs if there's no other alternative. Like if you had to copy over a slow internet link and sync wasn't available.
NFS is fine for local network filesystems. I use it everywhere and it's great. Learn to use autos and NFS is just automatic everywhere you need it.
Windows 11 isn't even backwards-compatible with 7-year-old CPUs! Run a 32-bit or 16-bit (dos) exe on Win11/x64? Think again. Windows drivers are always a pain in the butt. Load up an old driver for your favorite peripheral? Probably won't work.