randomactsofgaming: lemmy.zip

A Lemmy community for everyone, with a focus towards tech, PCs, and gaming.

As someone who does not subscribe to WomensStuff, so I only have general advice for you:

• If you or your instance (still forget the specifics) is opted into Lemmy Federate, then the bot drops a subscription when a real user subscribes. If that real user unsubscribes, I'm not sure the bot picks it back up.
• People deleting their accounts or getting banned from an instance, perhaps? Not sure if banning from an instance drops all the user's subscriptions there.
• Fatigue or dislike with the posts there.
• Maybe just plain old federation issues? I know I have a community where my subscription is still pending, because the instance has massive federation issues.

It happens. I wouldn't worry too much about it unless it drops a good fraction and stays down.

I have definitely bonded with people over video games. Playing them together, or playing them apart but doing so physically side by side, talking about them… most social groups I've been, even when they were not formed around gaming at all, went and made a Minecraft server for us to play together. I think it is telling that the fastest way to get me to open a game and start playing is if my other friends are playing. I am younger than your generation, though, so I'm definitely not helping your argument for retro games specifically.

Online play has helped a lot for when I am physically separated from friends. Just hop in a game and voice chat, and play together anyways.

I think people are very much taking this less as an "I'm curious, why do people find this fun? I want to understand" post, and more of a condescending "I think it's not fun because I have taste and am presuming people who think it is fun do not until proven otherwise, now prove me otherwise" post. Some people, including me until I saw these comments, were seeing your post body that tells us why you don't like the game less as sharing your own perspective and wanting someone to show you a bright side, and more as trying to denigrate people who see it as fun. I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, but I think you can reread your post body and see how people might interpret a far less curious, far more judgmental tone from it.

To actually answer your question: I played Mario Kart Wii mostly as kid against the computer and other people, and a few times as an adult against other people. I like to think I was good at the game, that skill mattered and it wasn't random and unfair. I won almost every time both against the computer, and against other humans. So I just didn't perceive the game as "mostly random and unfair." (Although now that I think of it, when I had the option I'd usually switch all items to Strategic against the computer, eliminating a lot of the catch-up items, so perhaps I did perceive it initially and just removed it from my experience to the point I don't remember it? Although when I played against other humans it was usually on their console at their place with their settings, which probably didn't have it set to Strategic.) The catch-up mechanics could sink me if I made a mistake, but if I drove well the whole course I almost always came out in front. Perhaps you're thinking of later editions that I never played and have no opinion of, or the computer plays badly and the people I played against were bad at the game?

Stephen Merchant.

Correction not to be an asshole, but because looking up Stephen Marchant brings up a different human

Would be an indirect way to see who gets reports, too. You know, in a way besides checking every community's modlog. I mod a few things and am happy to say I've received zero reports and one mild, unintended rule-breaking behavior, so I couldn't post anything here.

Stupid person checking in. At least, compared to all the tech whizzes on Lemmy. What counts as hacked? I recognize ROPs are not the same as full system control.

Most charitable interpretation: social pressure to get others to not buy, thereby hurting Nintendo just that bit more. I can say I was planning on buying a Switch at one point, but all these comments and news posts about anticompetitive practices have turned me away and slotted me in the "not buying" category.

Somewhat charitable interpretation: maybe venting outrage? Frustration at being the little guy in this situation who can't do much? If you hate homelessness you can go volunteer at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter or donate money to either two, but if you hate these rising prices not much I'm aware of that you can do besides raging online and hoping you turn others away from buying. Although to be fair, you just proposed some things. Promoting other games instead could also help.

I don't care too much about virtue signaling. What bothers me is people getting nasty and personal, and unfortunately that often happens in Company Does Bad Thing comment sections, so I've learned not to click on them. I should probably change that to big company news at all. I say this all because I want to say thanks for kind of disagreeing with me while also not being awful to me in this discussion. But I get how virtue signaling can annoy others.

Hey! Not sure if you're on an app or browser. I'm currently on the Lemmy browser. Doing

An example spoiler
Something happens at the end of the game!

works for me to make

I'm curious to see if copy/pasting that on your end will look correct on my end, even if it looks wrong for you.

I helped a friend with exactly one puzzle, and thought the artstyle was cool. Am browsing this thread because I've heard about the hype and want to see if I ought to check it out myself.

On the plus side, the virtue signalers saved $ and can spend it on something that'll bring them more joy and is hopefully more aligned with their views. And gives them practice and a mindset of "I'm the kind of person willing to boycott" for any other boycotts that might have a real effect someday.

…I have thought about it and it is interesting that "virtue signal" is such a dirty word now. When I say "please" and "thank you" I'm essentially just virtue signaling that I'm willing to play nice, but nobody calls me the bad word for that. Although I understand that the current use of "virtue signal" is more about people you find to be sanctimonious and obnoxious online who you personally don't think actually bother with real activism, just online keyboard warrior-ing, and not about any type of "hi, I am not horrible to interact with" social signaling ever.