As a cybersecurity pro who primarily deals with email security right now (in the sense that there is basically none)

STOP

CLICKING

LINKS

Yeah Relay works still and is going in a subscription model

Glad you said this. People demanding large instances like this one defederate from stuff they don't personally like are, frankly, very mislead and trying to be little dictators. That's not their decision to make.

Needlessly aggressive internet arguments and flame wars for no reason

Threads does not really want or care about our tiny userbase. They want the normies and they want to OWN most of the marketshare of this protocol

It's real hard to break a habit that's been ongoing for almost 12 years for me. I'm trying to do my part by contributing, upvoting, etc

Very rigid routines and coping mechanisms. For your tab problem, I use OneTab to collapse and save them all into a searchable list for later.

So the key for me has been "offloading" and "outsourcing" is what I call them. Memory tasks I offload to my phone like reminders, obsessive calendaring, note taking, and to do lists. I automate as much as possible when it comes to systems designed to make me get on task. Basically, if executive function is a limited resource (it is if you have ADHD) the less decision making you have to do, the better. Pre-make decisions and go from a script or playbook. That's my calendar and notes.

Mega hot take is that defense should largely be removed or at minimum reworked. It breaks half the time and pathing clearly isn't designed for it. It's the slowest game mode now that they redesigned tile sets to make it last longer than 5 minutes.

God I hate how they won't LEAVE ME ALONE while fishing and mining. Even when invisible they just swarm you!

Will it explicitly and repeatedly mention communication carries on over here? Because most people just do not know

Better plan: have a huge "we're migrating!" Series of posts to direct to here and make it read only.

I have a small contribution: another kind user I have since forgotten (rip) recommended Jerboa for Lemmy as an Android app to use. It's much nicer than the web browser experience IMO. I heard there's also a good option on iOS, so feel free to chime in if you know what that is. I heard on HackerNews that some people plan to make their own Lemmy instances effectively private so they can simply use it as a personal feed and go anywhere they please. Sounds like a great idea, honestly. Imagine an IowaMan instance, for example, and I would simply control it however I want. Not sure what the reqs would be tho.