[-] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I understand finding these things funny when you are a cool, level-headed person or not in a moment of fight or flee situation, but many of us fall prey to dumb reasoning in emotional situations.

Going slightly off-topic, but I'd wager many people have spent a lot of unnecessary money or gone to jail in the heat of the moment. And many of Sun Tzu's or Lao Tzi's (Tao) advice is like: "stop, breathe, and think it through mofo, stop being an impulsive idiot and paying a high price for it"

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Makes sense. People think they are the center of the universe when companies only see you as an additional cog in the machine. I'm not sure if I'm happy or sad by this. I'll choose the positive side of things today.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Stupid question, wasn't that a risky move? I mean, the way I was raised to think by my parents I can hear their voices in the back of my head if I went through a situation like this, similar to this:

"But aren't you worried they might hire you then fire you just out of spite for switching companies? And then what are you gonna do?"

[-] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

Infelizmente ainda não é foi.

Esses dias um amigo entusiasta em cripto veio mostrar um novo servidor de MMORPG atrelado a ganho de "dinheiro real" em forma de USDC. Pior que alguns se interessaram.

Tô completamente desconectado dessa realidade pos-pandemica.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I am that friend that vanished that you are describing.

In my case, I tried talking to the friend that bothered me ( an unmedicated ADHD alcoholic mess of a friend) he told me to fuck off.

I even stopped hanging out with my old group of friends that involved this guy that I described because it became this: male anger space to vent off, suicide jokes, complain about work, glorify alcohol, try out different types of drugs. No, thank you, I don't want to do a live action of Rick n Morty.

There is no talking with a group where everyone decided to stay together on a shitty decision. I tried once and they got really angry and made me the wrong one for going to the gym, waking up early, quitting alcohol, etc.

I still keep in touch from afar and now, almost 10 years later, some of them are saying " yeah, the doctor told me to drop the alcohol", " yeah now I found the right meds for me and I aint as angry"

Everybody goes at their own pace, but expecting other friends to stay with you during this journey is ludicrous.

I went my way and although it hurt, sometimes its the best thing you can do for your mental health and integrity

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 years ago

Thats insane.

Here in Brazil I pay around 65-70 dollars per month and then I have full hospitalization coverage and full doctors appointment coverage.

And there are better options lol

[-] [email protected] 20 points 2 years ago

This is the epitome of what the Linux community loves to read on the internet. Got any distros in mind?

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

Fiz isso também e agora uso majoritariamente apps código aberto no meu celular. Tudo funcionando 100%, sem anúncios e talvez até mais rápido.

É impressionante a gama de opções que temos hoje em dia de apps não invasivos, mas muitas vezes eles nem estão na APP store, e sim no F- droid

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Agora no Lemmy uso o conect e tá ok, mas não é a mesma coisa, fora que 90% da galera não fez a migração

Eu entendo que tenha menos posts e isso possa desanimar, mas para mim eu percebo que são coisas de maior qualidade, a conversa flui mais devagar e às vezes posts se alongam mais sobre um tema e outro. Eu acho que, no geral, o resultado é positivo. Tem vezes que eu entro aqui para postar e já vejo um usuário falando exatamente o que eu penso, então eu só upvoto, hahaha.

O que eu posso sugerir para expandir tua experiência no Lemmy e dar essa sensação do r/brasil é usar o All e ficar conectada em todas as instâncias do Lemmy possíveis.

Não é obrigatório saber inglês bem, mas ajuda muito já que a troca e investida ao Lemmy é primordialmente algo internacional.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago

Infelizmente a maior parte das pessoas só querem desabafar, não passar pela mudança, porque mudança é incomodo e dói.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago

2 months ago that was fine.

Now I don't have an app for that, the website on my mobile doesn't open my search and instead tells me to download the official Reddit app, or the subs are nsfw or private.

Sigh, so much for easy answers at a type of the finger :(

[-] [email protected] 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I agree. I think it's just good that with all this shitstorm, a lot of the good users migrated to the Lemmy.

We don't need 100% of the Reddit population here, if we just get like 10-20% we will have potential to become the long gone golden age of Reddit.

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