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dude is not gender neutral (hexbear.net)
submitted 2 years ago by to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
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if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have

same goes double for the word guy.

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[–] 9 points 2 years ago (1 child)

The problem is that when dj crazy times is singing, the people want to make a fun. It's a little bit of a different context so that's why it's not a microagression send post

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