Lemmy is way better because unlike Reddit they don't really censor stuff unless for a good reason, and because the modlog is public it becomes very easy to see when they are which makes it even more of a disincentive not to remove stuff just because it's distasteful. And unlike other platforms which build themselves on being "free speech" are willing to have basic standards of quality like "lets not become a hub of CSAM, neo-nazism, and crypto scams" allowing that shit not only stifles actual free speech but also drives people away in droves.