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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


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1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them

2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals

3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.

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It’s super weird to think about now. But I remember that being me while growing up. No one really acknowledged the fact that those in my “group” were being separated from our friends.

It was super interesting though because there were always a few people from the other group that would crossover and make friends between groups. Those were the types of people everyone liked, but I’m seriously noticing this same pattern again and I fucking hate it.

It’s so so so fucked. That’s why I seldom go outside (lmao and almost typed this out in response to the copypasta post before realizing it was a copypasta)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. Might be funny in a weird manner, but I was the only one who "chased" during tag along with a girl that was severely autistic for sure. It's like they clocked me as autistic even that early (7yo) based purely on vibes. And that probably always happens except with other ND people who don't really notice my weirdness that much

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Damn, yeah definitely resonates. To this day, I still think separating people based on “vibes” was problematic (and know for sure it caused trauma) but I also went to a private school.

It was like the principle was there, but the ostensibly ND group was treated pretty damn poorly in comparison

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. Shit like this makes me pretty doomer about us ever being able to participate in a majority neurotypical society even in a socialist one, but we have to hope

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Yeah the older I get and the more my autism starts to show itself, I’m starting to think that’s the case