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Anon lives differently than his peers (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 2 years ago by [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] -5 points 2 years ago (13 children)

But she needs to check for red flags if she doesn't want to become another rape/murder statistic.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (12 children)

    You are really equating someone who despises social media to a potential murderer.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I'd guess the point is rather that women tend to research their potential assailants/murderers/lovers before dates, which is easier to do for people that share their shit on social media.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Right, because murderers share their kills on social media? You can sort out some creeps but those can't hide it if you text with them for a few days either. I don't think you'd spot most murderers or rapists by looking through their social media.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Well her vibe check was right about this guy, he uses 4chan, one of the worst possibly social medias lol

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  • [–] 0 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Yeah, but id bet money that the dude is an untreated/undiagnosed autist, and they can be really fucken creepy. I know cause I was diagnosed with aspergers at fucking 2, when you have to mask constantly and look for social cues you start to notice the undiagnosed ones.

    If youre curious how I noticed its cause they usually have stronger fixations and are usually a bit off with their body language.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago

    If youre curious how I noticed its cause they usually have stronger fixations and are usually a bit off with their body language.

    You mean they actually live their life without pretending to be something they are not? Not everyone who doesn't mask is undiagnosed, the opposite in fact. People get diagnosed, learn masking is bad, and stop doing it gradually.

    I can't believe we have people on lemmy trying to encourage masking.

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  • [–] -4 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    No, someone who refuses to use normal modes of communication, is sus.

    I wouldn't trust someone who refuses to have a cellphone.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Since when is SMS not a normal mode of communication?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago

    Outside of the US? Last 15-20 years...

    But it's starting to fade even in the US, among teenagers.

    The anon failed to meet the expected social norms for environment he was in. The only difference between this and a guy getting turned down for any other reason is the Anon (and it seems many here) are all butthurt over it.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago (2 children)

    I don't understand why; I know a few women who don't have Instagram (crazy, right) and this simple fact made them interesting to me.

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