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[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I don't think using someone's own insecurities against them because they were a jerk is quite the same as being truly hurtful to people who are actually going through mental distress.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Or is the former just being used as a cover for the latter?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Sure, maybe they're just jerky to everyone, but making prejudiced presuppositions is the same stereotyping that everyone should avoid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole.