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is there a point to an adult diagnosis? (lemm.ee)
submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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Sorry if this seems stupid. My kid was diagnosed with type 1 autism, formerly asperger's. We weren't even testing them for that (it was adhd), but the doc pointed out a lot of behaviors that are classified as autistic. I never thought of those behaviors that way, because I did a bunch of that stuff when I was a teen, too. I just learned I was weird and figured the rest was due to my super dysfunctional family. I've learned to cope. I keep my weirdness to myself and pass for a normal person pretty well. No one would ever guess I'm autistic (again, I've no diagnosis but it's implied).

So, with that context, would there even be a point to getting a diagnosis? What would it benefit me? I'm middle aged, so I don't need educational accommodations. I've learned to adapt, so idk if I'd even be diagnosable.

Idk. I'm still just messed up learning that my kid, who I thought was neurotypical and a LOT like me is considered autistic. How different would my childhood have been if I had been evaluated when I was younger?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm 34. I got tested earlier this year so I could better understand myself. Somebody quoted something at me that I'm not remembering properly but it was something like "it's better to be a normal zebra than a strange horse" and I'm happy knowing I'm a zebra.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Why do you need a label? Bc there is comfort in knowing you're a normal zebra, not a strange horse. Bc you can't find community with other zebras if you don't know you belong. And bc it's impossible for a zebra to live a happy and healthy life feeling like a failed horse."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where is that from? I love it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's an older tweet, you can find it here

I love it as well, it explains it so well. Labels are there so you can find the community and the help that you need.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

it’s better to be a normal zebra than a strange horse

oooh, I like that