this post was submitted on 15 Oct 2023
144 points (100.0% liked)

neurodiverse

1677 readers
24 users here now

What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


Rules

1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them

2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals

3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.

3.5) everyone has their own lived experiences, and to invalidate them is to post cringe. comments will be removed on a case by case basis depending on determined level of awareness and faith

4.) Interest Policing will not be tolerated in any form. Support your comrades in their joy!

Further rules to be added/ rules to be changed based on community input

RULES NOTE: For this community more than most we understand that the clarity and understandability of these rules is very important for allowing folks to feel comfortable, to that end please don't be afraid to be outspoken about amendments and addendums to these rules, as well as any we may have missed

founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Basically being left out of the group but for life 😀

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)

This is 100% my internal monologue constantly and telling me to do bad shit to myself.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

People like you more than you think. The tendency even has a name; it's called the liking gap.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I got in the habit of nurturing that monologue to punish myself for not measuring up, as like self-punishment in order to apologize? it's so corrosive, I can't stop it now and it's eating me alive 🥴

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mood. It's so bad that even here - where I can rationally understand that I'm much more likely to find things in common with people - I feel like there's no point in posting because the things I say have no value and people won't like me. Lmao, it's pathetic typing it out.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

It's not pathetic.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago