neurodiverse
What is Neurodivergence?
It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc
“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”
So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned
Rules
1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them
2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence
2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals
3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.
3.5) everyone has their own lived experiences, and to invalidate them is to post cringe. comments will be removed on a case by case basis depending on determined level of awareness and faith
4.) Interest Policing will not be tolerated in any form. Support your comrades in their joy!
Further rules to be added/ rules to be changed based on community input
RULES NOTE: For this community more than most we understand that the clarity and understandability of these rules is very important for allowing folks to feel comfortable, to that end please don't be afraid to be outspoken about amendments and addendums to these rules, as well as any we may have missed
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Was talking to someone on Lex (queer social/dating app), got ghosted after info dumping a tiny bit, then they made a post saying everyone they talk to sounds like an AI.
Thats very uncool and sorry that happened. I love talking to people that infodump, NT conversation is the one that sounds like AI to me. I understand the purpose of smalltalk but its all they ever do every conversation plays out the same and its so boring.
If I feel very unsafe or unsure about a person I can sound like chatGPT. But I've been doing it for ages.
(Very verbose answers with a lot of fawning and de-escalation built in)
Big mood.
Ayoooo
(This is also me)
my reaction to that information:
My reaction to your post (middle).
If everyone you talk to sounds like an AI, then you're the AI.
Lex is, for basically a queer craigslist, clique-y as all fuck. I honestly hate it.
It's not super active where I am, but everyone tends to be way too young for me, so I don't interact much. Mostly hoping a fellow Commie pops up at some point lol.
I've put out posts in my MAJOY us city asking for any MLs to say hi, with no luck :(
I live in too small a town to be too blatantly communist lol. Kinda wish the lex location wasn't so granular. I'm not too far from a major city, and I'd feel a lot more comfortable if my location showed that.