Ive been out of school for a year or 2 (i lost count) and i still have no idea what i want to do in life nor do i have any hobbys or things to do for fun. I have many dreams but i give up on those dreams after like a 2 weeks and then think of some other dream. I wish school prepared me for all this freetime but idk, i just feel lost right now....

Im just wondering how i can figure things out now? i could use advice of sorts?

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[–] 13 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I'm in my 30's and still don't know what the fuck I want to do most of the time. Just do what makes you happy in your free time and what makes you money for work. If you can make those things overlap, fantastic. But I've always found that doing what I love for money makes me love it less. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to get it all figured out. Noone has it all figured out by the time they die, and it's not worth wasting your time worrying instead of living.

Be good to yourself and others and you'll have few regrets.

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  • [–] 10 points 17 hours ago

    I’m 42 and this is great advice. I still don’t know what the fuck I want to do with my life. I have a job that pays decent and I don’t hate it, this second part is really important. I have a fun and fulfilling time in my free time. That’s about all I can ask for.

    Be good to yourself and others and you'll have few regrets.

    Super important!

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