(As mentioned in the title, posting for my beautiful wife (she/they)! Hope that's ok, if not mods please delete. Thank you wise trans Hexbears love you)

I have been on HRT for 2 years and I just had my first consultation with an OB/GYN and wanted to get y'all's experience with full depth vs shallow depth vaginaplasties.

I was originally leading towards a full depth because I love the idea of penetration, but I am in a closed marriage with a cis woman so the penetration would just be for my enjoyment.

After talking with the OB/GYN, I am wondering if shallow depth would be better for me. I won't have to worry about electrolysis or dilating and it will get me all the important bits that I care about (I.e. not a penis and balls)

So, for my girlies that have had bottom surgery, what did you decide and what was your reasoning? Thanks a bunch xoxo