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(CW: bottom surgery) Posting for my partner, question about bottom surgery (hexbear.net)
submitted 2 days ago by to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
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(As mentioned in the title, posting for my beautiful wife (she/they)! Hope that's ok, if not mods please delete. Thank you wise trans Hexbears love you)

I have been on HRT for 2 years and I just had my first consultation with an OB/GYN and wanted to get y'all's experience with full depth vs shallow depth vaginaplasties.

I was originally leading towards a full depth because I love the idea of penetration, but I am in a closed marriage with a cis woman so the penetration would just be for my enjoyment.

After talking with the OB/GYN, I am wondering if shallow depth would be better for me. I won't have to worry about electrolysis or dilating and it will get me all the important bits that I care about (I.e. not a penis and balls)

So, for my girlies that have had bottom surgery, what did you decide and what was your reasoning? Thanks a bunch xoxo

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[–] 12 points 2 days ago

I'm pre op, no interest in being with men, still going to opt for full depth I think. I think I'd like bottoming and want the "full" vagina. Recovery is probably the biggest advantage of zero depth- but once its done, its done and I'll have the "full, proper" vagina I want. I would hate to regret my choice and feel like I am missing a part of me. Even though I think not having my current genitals is the biggest part and I'm sure zero would be a massive dysphoria improvement... I want the whole thing.

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