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Picky eaters of Lemmy: Why? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I just overheard a coworker saying “Oh, I would never try that in my life!”, in a discussion of food. (This was about consuming a steak cooked less than medium well). It made me wonder what life is like for those who refuse to try new food, especially those who refuse to try mundane things like fried shrimp.

Why limit yourself? It seems like such a closed-minded way to view food. Help me understand?

EDIT:

I wasn’t going to do this, but I’m tired of replying to people and will post this at the top.

The person that prompted this question is a close-minded piece of crap. He has no sensory issues, just a shitty mindset, with ignorance and prejudice on display with no shame. I have the pleasure of hearing his annoying shit every night.

The knee-jerk reactions I have received from people in this post have had me examine my own knee-jerk reactions, attributing malice to that which may be misunderstanding rather than bigotry or hatred. This is what I am taking away from this post. That even I should take a chill pill every now and again; it’s not all a tragedy.

I will not delete it, because there are some very thoughtful replies that explain different viewpoints, that people took time to type out. It would be disrespectful to them to do that.

Call me what you like. Don’t care. I will not be replying to any other replies.

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[-] determinist@kbin.earth 112 points 3 days ago

Autism.

Textures & temperatures are problematic. I stay with what I know so minimise the chance of freaking out.

[-] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 34 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Autistic and the total opposite here for home cooking. The (allegedly greater) magnitude of those flavors and textures makes trying new things so enjoyable that it's worth the risk.

That said, I used to be similar, having a rotation of a few select meals; I'd get "hooked" on a specific food for an unreasonably long time. But nowadays, I get the benefits of both.

I make whatever at home because I know exactly what's going into it and roughly how it'll taste, and I'm naturally limited to a few vegan options at restaurants so I can live the dream of having one or two favorites I get every time. It's a win–win.

[-] Strider@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Proves again we're all different. I too am on the side of trying but also need some fixed things.

[-] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

On the spectrum myself and I am a foodie with an insatiable apetite for new and interesting. My general rule is if it was good enough for them, it's good enough for me. I don't always like everything, but I'll try anything.

[-] shellington@piefed.zip 7 points 3 days ago

I agree Autism too and I always stick with the things I know. Cannot be dealing with unfamiliar textures.

[-] Magister@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Agree, I'm not a picky eater (but somewhat autistic) and eat basically anything, but there is some texture I can't, like avocado or liver, I can literally puke.

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