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What was that all about? I didn’t really pay attention to that discourse at the time, but I heard someone use the term “man bun” recently and I wondered if it is just gender essentialism / toxic masculinity / “boys have short hair and girls have long hair” ridiculous gender norms.

I get it, you’re uncomfortable with men doing “feminine” things like putting their hair up

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[-] LENINSGHOSTFACEKILLA@hexbear.net 8 points 21 hours ago

Yes I do. I have long hair that I often have up, sometimes in a bun. It still gets brought up but the dumbest chuds you'll meet

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