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What was your worst dating app experience?
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Not a single experience but in general all the ghosting and effort that went into nothing. I texted with so many people, yet all of it felt like the same. After a few days 90% of them stopped replying, and the other 10%, well, either I didn't want to text with them anymore (but then I told them that!) or something else came in between. I ended up meeting two people. One of them disappeared after two dates and the other, well, we both agreed that it won't work between us. I just feel like there are very few people that are compatible with me on there. And then, my ex, who I am still not over heard that I'm on a dating Plattform and i heard that she knew. That was the end of it for me. I felt terrible for a day. But that's half a year ago now, maybe I'll try it again.
Oh my dog yes, having to try and carry every fucking conversation and then just be ignored.
I gave up, and met my wife IRL in a hobby group.
Average dating app conversation
Absolutely. Or even better, you ask about something they mentioned they love doing on their profile, and they say they're not into that.
Exactly! May I ask, what hobby group was that? Currently thinking about going back to an app but I really don't want to...
I ... don't want to dox myself so I'll just say it was a gentle sporting activity that's very social.
I wasn't there for dating, it gave us a chance to interact with zero pressure or expectations :-)
I didn't know orgies are hobbies now.
Hard to believe, but I do activities that aren't centered around sex. Sometimes.
Inconceivable!