I interact almost exclusively with queer community. Not a single person I've interacted with has ever had a problem with using cocksucking as an insult and many of them have used such a phrase themselves

I’m not going to spend my time arguing with a lib about this.

Dude, view my comment history. Cut your bullshit. (Is this not an allowed phrase, because a cow's shit isn't bad, so it must be misandrist?) You don't get to decide whatever you want, like me being a "lib" because I don't agree with your authoritarian view on language, and force everyone else to agree. You could try explaining why you don't like something, and try to convince others, instead of just telling people it is whatever you think.

I am not the one who used this language though. I purely explained that it doesn't mean what you want just because you said so. If you want to remove it, you should put it in the rules. Again, so much language needs to be removed if you start going this route. I don't think you want to spend all your time on this.