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30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say "yeah once a week too" when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his "normal" cadence. I know "whatever works for me" is right, but I'd like to compare to other people my age that aren't my friends.

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[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 72 points 13 hours ago
[-] treadful@lemmy.zip 39 points 13 hours ago

Never would have expected a "30 something woman" to be behind that username.

[-] arcine@jlai.lu 3 points 2 hours ago

30-something is a lot younger than most people realise x)

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 50 points 13 hours ago

I mean my husband and I have been sharing links to cumshot porn with each other for over a decade. But I get it. Not your average 30 something woman's username 😆

[-] arcine@jlai.lu 1 points 2 hours ago

Forgive me for asking, but would you be able to explain the appeal ? I've always been a little puzzled by this fetish, to be blunt it always seemed like a waste of a creampie x)

[-] treadful@lemmy.zip 25 points 13 hours ago
[-] Zachariah@lemmy.world 11 points 10 hours ago

And also gross in a sweet way.

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 29 points 12 hours ago

Haha, I guess it is sweet, not gross for us though

[-] errer@lemmy.world 14 points 9 hours ago

I think it’s more salty than sweet

[-] socsa@piefed.social 3 points 10 hours ago
[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 4 points 10 hours ago

I watch hundreds a day, I'm not sure I could choose 5

[-] protist@retrofed.com 26 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Very frankly, this statement right here has me thinking about porn or sex addiction. If you don't think it's negatively affecting your life (relationships, employment, self-esteem, sexual fulfillment, etc), then you keep doing you (hehe). If you find you're putting aside other meaningful activities on a regular basis to click the mouse, maybe take a deeper look at that pattern and consider talking with a sex-positive therapist

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 29 points 13 hours ago

Have you seen the type of books 30 something women consume?

We be horny out here.

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 15 points 13 hours ago

A lot of my friends are very into the whole erotica thing. I am far too visual a person to spend a lot of time doing that, personally.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 6 points 13 hours ago

I never got into the bodice-ripper novels, but there’s definitely some literotica mixed in with visual porn in my preferences.

Mostly visual though.

It’s been nice to see that women who enjoy the written word have an avenue to be as horny as they like without as much judgment lately though haha

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 11 points 12 hours ago

Agreed and sometimes, the right erotic story can be very very moistening. I remember reading some as a late teen and those images still appear sometimes when I fantasise

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 12 hours ago

Moistening hahaha. I might copy that phrase!

Also I can’t lie, knowing you’re a woman makes your posts that much hotter. Thanks! Haha

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 7 points 12 hours ago

And no lie, I've kind of always hoped that women looked at my posts, but never had confirmation, and now I do, so....moistening lol. So thank you.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 9 points 13 hours ago

All of my coworkers (age 25-60) read the porn stories.

[-] WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today 3 points 11 hours ago

The conversations you've had with your coworkers to even know that make me wanna... come ...work there, too!

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 11 points 13 hours ago

Heh, well its the main reason I "cum" here, especially on Fridays.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 8 points 13 hours ago

I’ve appreciated your posts a time or two myself. I’d say my usual is every other day, but I’d also say you’re totally normal with your frequency as well.

Women’s sex drives tend to rise as we age. Enjoy the ride!

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 8 points 13 hours ago

The fact that another woman has appreciated something I've posted is incredibly awesome, and more than a little bit sexy, so thank your for sharing that. I can't imagine my sex drive increasing much, well I can, but it would be crazy :)

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 1 points 12 hours ago

Maybe yours will, maybe you got lucky with a real stable drive. It’s all a guessing game when it comes down to individuals!

Your comments resonated with me, I’m not dissimilar to you honestly hahaha. Cum is hot!

[-] CumshotCurator@fedinsfw.app 6 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I was not expecting any women to honestly reply, so to get a reply from a woman containing the words "Cum is hot" might be the most fantastic thing that has happened to me since my husband shared a link to something that made me insta-cum the other week. Thanks for your honest and open replies. Keep enjoying the white ropes, the idea of it is very sexy for me.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 12 hours ago

Hahah this is awesome. I definitely will 💕

[-] Whirling_Ashandarei@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

This is about to be a top 5 all time lemmy comment thread lol

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