the best kind of relationship is the one where you can be silent together and you don't have to talk about trivial crap.

it blows my mind how much trivial miserable nonsense makes up most folks conversations, and how obsessed they are with other folks... and 100% they would be RIPSHIT if someone else talked about them the way they talked about the person they are gossiping about...

I used to have an ex who would viciously gossip about her friends/co-workers intimate details to me, and I asked her once what she would think if they did that about her. She got so angry at the thought... least to say we broke up pretty soon afterwards.

And I was a lot happier without her going on for hours about Lydia's boyfriend's crack addiction and his limp dick, etc.