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Just saying because nearly every person I know who has ADHD and/or Autism (including myself) seems to care less about people knowing they're into "childish" things.

Also the idea that this is a new phenomenon because Millenials and older gen Z are "soft" or stunted in some way.

I mean, boomers have model trains and and cars. So did their parents. My grandma used to knit herself plushies. This isn't new. You don't suddenly stop having your old likes because you reach a certain age.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

There is nothing wrong with liking 'childish' things. However, if you still like and cling to the exact same things that you did as a child, the exact same way as you did as a child, you risk being something worse than 'childish', you are 'boring'.

Like, I have a friend who is really into Superman. When I say this, I mean the motherfucker is into every version, iteration and era of Superman and can tell you storylines that I have never even heard of that actually make me want to read Superman comics, which are usually my least favorite. It is very unlikely that his favorite Superman is the same now as it was when he was 10 or 15 or even 20. Most importantly, he even knows about writers and ownership disputes and why things changed over time. He loves the concept and history of the product, as a consumer product.

Now, I'm not saying that you have to have that level of dedicated nerdom to any specific topic for it to be 'legit', but that is, to me, what distinguishes it as an adult passion from a childish hobby. The meta level of understanding and conscious consumption.

Disney adults are weird because they rarely know that much about Disney outside of the products. Like they don't want to acknowledge the absolutely shitty things that Disney does to their employees, or how Disney completely guts the IP's they buy, and their obsession with the 'Disney magic'. That is 'childish' and ultimately, boring! Because they view it literally as a child would. That being said, portraying Mickey as a bloodthirsty vampire is also getting cliche, but at least it's an accurate cliche.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Yeah, I have to agree. I hate when people act like a company is some special pioneer or hero. Almost like a religion. It's probably just because I've seen the term "Disney Adult" thrown around as a catch-all for anyone that enjoys animation that I became defensive.

As far as animation as a whole is concerned I actually don't like Disney, funnily enough (Except maybe Owl House and Gravity Falls?). I have a hard time separating it from the horrible man that it's named after. Especially after learning that the fucker exploited his friend's labor.

And, like, I'm pretty sure he was a Nazi.