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This is the first time I'll ever be looking for a place on my own and I have no idea how to go about this. I'm desperate to move out of my parents house due to them both being very controlling and having ridiculous rules about what I should and shouldn't be doing within their home. I'm working two jobs currently and trying to save as much as possible, but I'm not sure whether I can even afford to rent a studio apartment of my own because I'm still making not very much money. I'm considering renting a room somewhere but I don't even know where to look for roommates and I'm terrified of ending up in an even worse living situation with people I don't like. I've tried to seek advice from my family but none of them have anything helpful to say as they've never gone through this on their own like I'm having to. It also sucks because I currently don't have any credit established so securing a place is going to be much more difficult I think. I don't have any friends either that could help with finding a place or by rooming together so I'm just kinda lost.

If you have any advice or tips on what I should I do please let me know, I am very eager to get out of my parents place, I feel like I'm suffocating here.

Thanks <3

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So I can't tell you anything specific since I'm the live in a trailer in the woods type and have no idea how to manage getting an apartment in california (you mentioned being there in another comment). I can give you some general advice though for making your money go as far as possible.

Big one is phone plan. Most people overspend on this. You can get unlimited call/text/1GB per month of data for 8$ per month with US mobile and I think Tello too? There are also similar deals if you need a bit more data. I just use wifi for most things so the data isn't needed. When not at home I don't use my phone for anything but calling, texting, music, and navigation. So I have Organic Maps downloaded to work offline, and mp3s stored. Cheap as dirt.

For food Chicken Quarters are a great hack to get meat for cheap. You can buy a 10lbs bag for 8.99$ where I am atleast. Just take them out and bag them up individually (You'll want large ziploc freezerbags for this) and put them in the freezer to use when needed. Pair that with some rice with a bit of peanut butter mixed in and you've got a very filling meal for dirt cheap. Season it however you want. If you mix up the rice recipe and do the chicken different each time (like use bbq one day, orange sauce another, lemon pepper another, etc) it keeps a lot of variety while staying quite cheap.

For clothes you can sometimes find bulk amazon returns of stuff for sale. Like I got a pack of t shirts that are normally like 35$ each that just had a few strings or other minor defects. It was 12$ for 10 shirts. Just sent to me in a big bag. I snipped off the strings and washed them and theyre serving me well.

Don't pay for subscriptions or any digital content. There are other ways to get that. Purely Education link unrelated

A dollar saved is always better than a dollar earned. Be frugal as fuck in all things, and good luck.

this post was submitted on 26 May 2026
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