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i said it was common among liberals, not predominant. in this context, realists believe that political and social change come solely from those that seek to rule. might makes right and all that. it doesnt really have much to do w bigotry other than realists tend to hold more bigoted views bc those in power uphold bigotry. idealists are still usually bigoted in some way just bc of how they are socialized
and i have seen the ppl on here doubting your gender, which is rude and im sorry you have to see that. but the majority here have been acting in good faith toward you and most questions have been to actually learn abt dronegender/swarmgender and NPD acceptance. ik its hard to find a community that doesnt immediately reject you, im sorry, ik that must be hard, but try to act in good faith bc a lot of ur activity here seems like attempts to stir the pot
Yeah, I am acting in good faith. And I do appreciate the open mindedness and support from mods. I've seen people come to understand my gender and neurotype and that's awesome. So I would characterise a lot of the people who initially reacted with hostility as well meaning liberals. Whereas the leftists who already had an education on xenogenders accepted me instantly, like that one angelgender person.
But I have a whole lot experience of denialism of my gender identity, and since I don't expect anyone here to have been in the same subreddits or discord servers or local orgs as I have and seen this for themselves, talking about through-lines that I've seen here is the best way to make my claims verifiable for others and prove I know what I'm talking about and I'm talking about it in good faith. So I talk about the realist bigotry here as a case study to help others understand the rest of my life. And the bottom line is: people who put reality above feelings are cruel to trans people. Trans "allies" who have been convinced reality is compatible with binary trans people are usually still enbyphobic. It's only the nonrealists who act with true acceptance. Because I will always have to justify my existence to realists, and even if science and kindness are on my side, it'll still be a struggle to get them to open their minds for the next marginalised experience
we’re all leftists here, liberals usually show their ass eventually and usually dont last long. but even the most convicted communists can have reactionary hangups. im sure most of the ppl who were acting uncivil or even hostile to you abt ur xenogender have come around to it after listening to ur explanation and explanations from other users. ur right tho, the rarity of xenogender ppl means that there are likely many on this site who have those reactionary hangups regarding xenogenders.
feelings are a part of reality. your mind is physical (im not going to debate spirituality with anyone, but denying that biochemical reactions in the brain regulate emotions and thoughts is antithetical to understanding the world). dialectical materialism maintains that there is a dialectical relationship between ideas and the physical world— the physical world shapes the social world and the social world has an effect on the physical world, and the relationship between the two form “reality” as understood by humanity
Left and right are relative, not absolute. Americans think that Joe Biden is a leftist because they're all the way on the right. Norwegians think that social democrats are on the left because they're on the moderate right. Hardcore communists think that demsocs are on the right, and some neo Nazis would think Reagan was a leftist if they met him.
I'm further left than the average Hexbear user, so from my point of view the MLs and anarchists who don't understand far left theory are centrists. They're further right than me, but I'm willing to compromise and accept those people as being "in the middle".
okay, on hexbear when we say “leftist” we typically mean anti-capitalist.
can you explain how you are “further left” than MLs and anarchists?
I am an anarchist, but I'm further left than most of them for simple reasons like radical gender inclusion and neurodivergent advocacy. And for complex reasons like unrealism, magic use, and pagan revolutionary attitudes.
Anarchy is simply impossible if you come into the whole situation thinking there's no way for the human mind to conquer reality. That's a defeatist mindset that leads to weak praxis. I use magic to help trans and otherkin people escape the mental shackles placed on them by realist society. Realist "anarchists" tend to reinforce those shackles by saying things like "You can't become a dragon in real life, that's impossible." I say things like "Your draconic identity clearly leads you to a different experience of sexuality and body than a human. You're obviously nonbinary and you deserve to explore your dragonkin identity to the fullest, here's some magic to help with that."
interesting, thanks for taking the time to explain!
Also, realists (be they Abrahamic or atheist) aren't really capable of accepting foreign religions to the fullest extent. Before the Romans came and fucked everything up, polytheists generally believed in the gods of foreign cultures as well as their own. The Romans used religion as a tool of conquest and said "actually there's only one pantheon, y'all have been worshipping Jupiter the whole time, surprise, now please don't revolt against us". Then they converted to Christianity and said "wait, there's only one god. Polytheism is fake and bad, every other god doesn't exist". Then atheism became popular starting in the Enlightenment, but in a post Rome world atheism existed primarily as a reaction to monotheism from people who didn't understand polytheism or history.
As an unrealist, I believe in all gods. What do I care if they're real, I'll believe in them anyway because it's a nice thing to do. And that's how most people felt about foreign gods before the Romans. But in the post Roman world, you have genocide from Christians who think it's a crime against the lord to be a dirty foreign pagan, and you have dismissiveness from atheists who don't really know the value of a religion because they're stuck in this realist mindset where they can't adopt the beliefs of foreign cultures. And I don't think the Stolen Generations in Australia were primarily religiously motivated, they were realist motivated. Capitalist realists wanted the aboriginal children to be taught about the "real" world, instead of aboriginal communist dreamtime "nonsense". And I don't think atheists are capable of fully understanding the value that's lost when 60,000 years of oral religious history is genocided away. That's a whole world, extinct. That's a whole world extinct for every single tribe that doesn't have anyone to tell its stories anymore. If you only believe in one world, you can't believe in the value lost there.
So I think realism has an important racial component that's often neglected.