It's all bollocks. I'm autistic. I was misdiagnosed as bipolar for 15 years including psychosis and sedated heavily for 15 years. THAT has had a major ongoing impact on my life. But there's no "wave" of people who come out about being misdiagnosed as bipolar...or borderline personality disorder - both of which are common misdiagnoses for late diagnosed autistic people.

There's a comfort in knowing who you are and being able to look after yourself and play to your strengths.

Anyone, with any diagnosis or not, can find a "reason" or "excuse" to not try or to be a shit person. That's not exclusive to literally any demographic or diagnosis. Lazy people exist, bad people exist, etc. autistic, non autistic, man, woman, young, old, mental illness, whatever isn't the thing that makes a person lazy, good, bad, etc.