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Therapy and outing myself (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

Well thats it shows over its official. Im publicly out at this point. Finally told therapist, dressing girlmode most times leaving the house (even if its stealth girl) and have a gender pathways appt in 1 month from now (which i have confirmed now that ill WALK OUT WITH HRT😍😍😍)

It feels great! But im still scared of the rest of what comes. I wont lie, seeing the hate and outright violence against trans people right now makes me wanna go back into the closet and lock the door forever. But im trying my best to be brave.

But most of the important people to me know now. My daughter is the last one i need to talk with.

My therapists reaction "honestly a lot of stuff youve talked about makes alot more sense now" 😨 like gee thanks? I guess its good you were paying attention this whole time lol.

She also changed my gender in my chart, asked if i wanted my name changed but i told her no im not ready for that yet.

But it went well, and heres hoping the future is bright for all of us ❤️❤️

Im still scared But ill get through this Ill be strong

Hello Brooke, good bye Zakk(🤢🤮)

❤️❤️❤️

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[-] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 2 weeks ago

Congratulations Brooke! You are already so brave and strong. You've got this girl!

[-] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago

It can only be up from here right? ❤️

[-] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago

Many of us are on the same journey, we'll all get there together. Thanks for all the sharing you do.

[-] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

If it helps someone even a tiny bit its worth it ❤️❤️

this post was submitted on 21 Apr 2026
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