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I agree being the eldest and hierarchy of female does come with baggage. Again second families and all comes with different results.
I will they are the first mainstream gen to raise children who do not identify with their birth, and there was no guide to that, they were likely learning about this as you were whilst also fielding off their parents questions and thoughts.
The biggest thing here is your peace and your relationships with others, inc your brother. I kind of think blaming generational stereotypes will just hinder you. You have a right to be angry and fight what you think is unfair...Just be clear on what that is and how it will help you....but ideally without hurting others too.