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Off My Chest
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Touch grass.
Speaking of that...
There's not much places I can go anywhere fun alone cuz I don't have a driver's license
And I need a doctor to fill some forms before I can even get a learner's permit cuz Pennsylvania has stupid laws that requires a medical exam... like wtf? Like I'm not piloting a fucking airplane ffs...
And cuz I have depression, the doc was like: "ummm... maybe seek help for depression first because you might get a panic attack and crash while trying to drive" (they didn't literally say that, but that's how I interpreted it)
And I also still have yet to get a Passport, I really want proof of citizenship before feeling safe outside... cuz ICE is being asshats "shoot first ask later" mentality
And to get a passport, I need someone to drive me there...
And then my parents are busy... so do I take a uber there? what a waste of money...
(That's on top of my anxiety issues)
Calm yourself, dude. You are getting yourself in a dither, get out of your own head. Try meditation, or do something nice for someone else. I mean this from a place of love.
I’m going to touch on two items : one is the drivers license, I personally believe it should be a lot harder to get a drivers license than what it is in the United States. I think it’s way too easy. I’ve been driving for over 30 years now and the crazy and stupid stuff I’ve seen yeah it should be harder to get a drivers license. Medical exam for drivers license , I think it’s a good idea.
The second one that I’m going to touch on is if a doctor is literally telling you to seek help it might be a good idea to seek help.
Oh well, my parents are busy I cant go anywhere without them driving me to places...
I'll have to see when they're available before I can travel around places...
You just described how life works. You have to do it the hard way first so that you appreciate it when you get it easier way.