Don't get me wrong, I'm all for privacy. But between setting up the birthdate when creating my children's local account on their computers, and having to send a copy of their ID to every platform under the sun, I'd easily chose the former.
I'd even agree to a simple protocol (HTTP X-Over-18 / X-Over-21 headers?) to that.
Won't someone think of the poor bigots! They're getting banned without getting to defend their bigotry!
Ada is a fantastic admin and she does an incredible job keeping shitty people off of blahaj.zone. Sounds like you're mad you got banned for being shitty.